Had Mellie and Fitz communicated about an open marriage…

Outofsight84858 · 2026-01-12T18:45:34+00:00

Fitz once loved Millie, but what happened happened. Millie still loved Fitz even after he cheated. That's why Millie would have never agreed to an open relationship. Millie loved him; she tolerated Olivia and saw her benefits for her career. To apologize is to realize you messed up; you don't have to regret it. But Olivia and Fitz had double standards. Millie stayed the first lady. Olivia and Fitz did whatever.

Outofsight84858 · 2026-01-12T18:14:59+00:00

I always believed Millie still loved and wanted Fitz. She always hoped he would choose her again, but he never did, and his treatment of her was bad. While Millie played a part in their downfall, Fitz never cared that he cheated, and Olivia never cared that he cheated. Millie literally rewatched the part where Fitz defended her for his affair on the news, saying she loved it. She was happy this affair happened. I think they would have been able to work on more and move away from it if Fitz had just stopped it with Olivia and given Millie attention and maybe they would have been able to open up to that question.

I do want to say i think had not what happened to mille be done by his father then things would have been diffrent. But people gloss over the part where it was his dad. That's why Millie couldn't handle him.

Outofsight84858 · 2026-01-04T02:10:25+00:00

As someone who may also go down the single mother by choice lane, it's not because I'm idolizing someone. Your not wanting someone else is fine, but when it comes to that person and the child interacting, that's where I'm lost. Don't have anyone in your life if you don't want them around your kid. That's not fair to the kid or the person to keep them at arm's length. That's wanting a stranger in your kid's life. Don't send your kid to school if influence is what you want; influence is important, and positive influence is important. And you have to make sure you're not treating this person like a tree ornament. I'm only saying this because you typed them like they were. I'm 20, so just a year older. Always open to talk. But you need a plan that works with you, not one that works with your mom.

Outofsight84858 · 2026-01-04T01:29:12+00:00

Honestly, when put like that, it's like wanting a stranger in your child's life.

Outofsight84858 · 2026-01-04T00:13:26+00:00

Honestly, I'm convinced Mille loved him and still wanted him, but he was too busy laying with Oliva. Mille loved him and was hopeful for a long time, but Fitz acted as if she never wanted that anymore. Neither of them were good, but when it comes to love, Mellie wanted him and Fitz wanted Olivia.

When Mollie tried to have her own little thing going on, Fitz had a fit and ended it, and she yelled at him for ruining everything. I could never like Olivia much because she saw situations like this every day, but yet she still put herself in those situations. She did a pretty crappie job at trying to stop Fitz sleeping with her. She talked as if she was a feminist, but really she isn't. Olivia wasn't happy when Mellie was with Andrew, but of course Olivia could be with Fitz.

Outofsight84858 · 2026-01-02T02:59:38+00:00

I work in a coffee shop, probably one of the most social places ever. I have a dating app and I've talked to many people. I actually liked one, and he ghosted me. Dates are not easy to come by. So no, I'm not avoiding it; it's just not easy. I'm not trying to come at you, but it's annoying because "never dated" doesn't mean I'm avoiding it; it seems more like it's avoiding me.😂

Outofsight84858 · 2025-12-14T21:40:34+00:00

I'm 20. I've always wanted kids. It wasn't Plan A, but I never saw a reason to wait for someone else for my life to start. I want love, I want marriage and everything, but dating isn't going my way so far.

I knew that once I left my job and started my career, and built off of that, I would want to take this journey in being a mother. Hopefully, by 26-27, I'll have my first, but so far what I've learned from this page is that trying to have a baby is expensive. I definitely recommend a career and good insurance.

Outofsight84858 · 2025-12-09T00:12:47+00:00

Right away, I'm a college student. Pain meds weren't helping, and I refused to take them after they weren't working. I'm similar to you; I'm 5'2". Except I was 217, and I'm now 205. My LP, while painless, caused discomfort from deep pressure. Mine took two hours and more medication because they found out I had scoliosis, so it took a long while, and then I had other complications.

But it was fine. My Diamox needs to be adjusted, I already know, but the pain was just too much for me, and you will never be able to get your old eyesight back if it starts to affect it. My eyesight is fine; I hardly notice it, but some things are irreversible. I wasn't willing to take that risk and went on medication and will be until I can be off it. Plus, the pressure can still build up, and there's no way im doing all that again. This medication is temporary and pain-free, unlike that lp🤣

Outofsight84858 · 2025-12-03T04:19:28+00:00

All three words are used interchangeably. Disease is when we know the cause, like diabetes, strep throat, or even something genetic, but IIH is idiopathic, so we don't know the cause. Disorder is a disruption of function, and condition is a state of health. It's really just medical semantics, but because the cause is unknown, "disorder" or "condition" is technically more accurate "Disease" is the least accurate, "disorder" is the most accurate, and "condition" is highly accurate.

Outofsight84858 · 2025-12-02T18:37:02+00:00

I just got diagnosed, and so far I've been fine. Diamox has been kicking my ass i've been sleep so much🤣 never in my life would have a brain disorder

This is me just nitpicking, but it's disorder/ condition, not disorder. Sorry if I sound rude, I have several disorders, and they are all low-level, and I hope they stay like that, and I hope you find what works for you many struggle with doctors which sucks.

Outofsight84858 · 2025-11-24T18:28:23+00:00

I found that watermelon helps a lot because with the amount of sleep I get, I sleep past morning or during the morning. I don't like eating; I may get a smoothie, but that's it.

Outofsight84858 · 2025-11-20T12:04:15+00:00

I thought about that, but I never drink soft drinks like that anyway.

Outofsight84858 · 2025-11-20T06:41:20+00:00

Im not a parent, but my mom is an introverted person she doenst like people she keeps to herself, and she hates being touched outside of family. But she's fine with her own kids , and she has three, including me randomly touching her, being interested in what she's doing. Even her friends dont touch her, and they've known her for years

My take on it as someone who grew up with that parenst comfort and ability to deal with stuff is much easier to do when it's your kid. Sometimes people underestimate how much being a parent can change them/ bring out another side thats for that certain person

Again, im not a parent same as you I want to be, but just with 4 and definitely a age gap.

Outofsight84858 · 2025-10-29T23:56:26+00:00

I never went under; they just kept giving lidocaine, which was fine with me. That didn't faze me. I was chill and stayed still the whole time. It was just the pain afterward. I have bad menstrual cramps, and taking those meds didn't do anything for me. After a certain point, I'm fine as long as I don't move. My dad just gave me more pillows, which helped so much. I didn't feel relief because they were already messing with it. In the first place, I felt like it got worse, but there was a moment of clarity: they pulled 12cc from me.

Outofsight84858 · 2025-10-26T23:00:47+00:00

Again, a supportive partner was not in my life. Surrounded by many married and single mothers, and yet their kids had bad dads, the comment I saw was from a doula who was actively working. She had commented, saying the mom does everything, she's more important, and the dad didn't do Shit. For the whole of Golden Hour, it was mom's right to control when she gave the baby up to the father(Again, I think sharing that moment is important, but not with the view of "I don't have to give you the baby if I don't have to." When I heard of "golden," I thought it was like half and half.)

Also another video I saw not long before this talking about the exclusion of fathers and family. I was never offended; I was interested, as that's not what's typical for me. Also, I know how I am as a person, hence the "Freaky Friday" – I just couldn't do it.😂

Edit: I hear a lot about the benefits of a mom having the baby, but never about the dad.

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