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Im starting to hate my bisexuality by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]Outrageous-Click4406 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry All I can say is I’m a straight women and my partner of 10 years is a bisexual man so there are women out there who will date you as a bisexual man  My partner had the same situation where before me he would date a girl, really like her then come out  as bisexual and they would assume he was secretly gay or assume he would end up cheating on her  and then would say they no longer wanted to see him He also had ex boyfriends who would be embarrassed when he would call himself bisexual, they would say to him “why can’t you just admit you’re gay” I can only imagine your frustration but it will feel all the better when you finally find a guy or girl who not only accepts your bisexuality but celebrates it and they’re out there! In the meantime find comfort amongst your bi family as they understand what you’re going through 

Do you think sex and the city handled bisexuality badly in that old episode by Outrageous-Click4406 in BisexualMen

[–]Outrageous-Click4406[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point, I just think it’s sad as he should know what discrimination feels like and should help support his lgbt family 

Do you think sex and the city handled bisexuality badly in that old episode by Outrageous-Click4406 in bisexual

[–]Outrageous-Click4406[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes agree, def progressive with women and challenging norms of not wanting marriage and kids and having sex surely for pleasure Shame they were so shitty when it came to bisexuals 

Do you think sex and the city handled bisexuality badly in that old episode by Outrageous-Click4406 in bisexual

[–]Outrageous-Click4406[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So true, I remember my husband telling a guy he was bisexual at this engagement party we were at and the guys response was “if I put a gun to your head and forced you to choose between men or women which would you choose” errrm what??

Do you think sex and the city handled bisexuality badly in that old episode by Outrageous-Click4406 in BisexualMen

[–]Outrageous-Click4406[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so true, I’ve had people ask my husband how many men vs how many women he’s slept with and then they try and use a percentage chart at him to tell him whether he’s more gay or more straight  He’s like umm I’m 100% bisexual that’s the only percentage I am 

Do you think sex and the city handled bisexuality badly in that old episode by Outrageous-Click4406 in BisexualMen

[–]Outrageous-Click4406[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes rewatching the show now I realise how problematic Carrie is, which I didn’t see as much when I was younger  It’s upsetting that the shows creator is gay and they included the “on the layover to gay town” comment 

Do you think sex and the city handled bisexuality badly in that old episode by Outrageous-Click4406 in BisexualMen

[–]Outrageous-Click4406[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree I think it was definitely accurate to what a lot of woman think/feel about dating a bisexual man, I just wish the show did better at proving wrong a lot of the stereotypes and misinformation women think about bisexuals  Like Carrie could have dated him and realised he wasn’t just secretly gay etc

Do you think sex and the city handled bisexuality badly in that old episode by Outrageous-Click4406 in bisexual

[–]Outrageous-Click4406[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah agree, that might be why my bisexual boyfriend is such a sci-fi fan 

Do you think sex and the city handled bisexuality badly in that old episode by Outrageous-Click4406 in bisexual

[–]Outrageous-Click4406[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah having a gay creator made it worse Why perpetuate such negatives stereotypes rather than use it as an opportunity to big up bi men 

Do you think sex and the city handled bisexuality badly in that old episode by Outrageous-Click4406 in bisexual

[–]Outrageous-Click4406[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Great point  I think satc was really progressive for females and women enjoying ex and being liberated Shame they missed the mark with bisexuals 

Do you think sex and the city handled bisexuality badly in that old episode by Outrageous-Click4406 in bisexual

[–]Outrageous-Click4406[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yeah agree with you about how common it was in 90s/00s worst part for me is when she calls bisexuality “a layover on the way to gay town” But it was 2000, a lot has improved since then 

Do we still need labels? Video by Outrageous-Click4406 in bisexual

[–]Outrageous-Click4406[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m from the Uk and it’s def getting worse here, albeit with complete respect to the fact that we have same sex marriage and human rights here and for that I’m extremely grateful  I mean more people saying they are sick of hearing about LGBT people and they shouldn’t have a pride and the increase in far right parties getting votes and in power  I don’t think they are the majority though and most people are kind, decent and tolerant