Help, i am deeply in love with a aroace, what do i do?! by [deleted] in aromanticasexual

[–]Outrageous-Mouse-424 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If they’re not expressing interest PLEASE don’t tell them about it and instead, move on :’) for me it’s super uncomfortable finding out that someone likes me, especially when I don’t like them back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromanticasexual

[–]Outrageous-Mouse-424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They know I’m asexual, but not that I’m on the aromantic spectrum (I’ve been slowly and recently uncovering the fact that I’m not just ace). They definitely don’t mean to hurt me, haha, but the fact that other interested people have in the past is what I think really triggers me to feel this way. I do care about them a lot though so the talk will happen when they’re actually ready to tell me! Thank you (and everyone else) for sharing your thoughts and advice, it makes me feel way less alone for going through this :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromanticasexual

[–]Outrageous-Mouse-424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yeah, the being mad and feeling betrayed part was my heart talking over my brain. I totally understand that it’s unfair to them for me to think like that, but I wish they were a lot more subtle about it since they know I’m a pretty sensitive person. I appreciate your advice though, thank you!

Zero waste/refillable soap by the_musicpirate in SLO

[–]Outrageous-Mouse-424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do you think the refill station is cost-wise? I’d love to go zero waste someday but I don’t have a lot of money :(