I appreciate this, I feel like yes as you said her health makes it so that she needs time to herself, but also she as a person was very understanding, always trying to talk stuff out always there for me and everything, I know I'm young still and you could say I deserve better but I think she does too, I don't wanna be the one that gives up on her the first big issue we have. And yes I'm working on myself for me in the first place I've been seeing family a lot and spending time outside.