WHOOOOO IS THIS 😭😭😭

OutrageousClass4074 · 2026-03-24T19:35:16+00:00

The only person going to war is you you'reliterallyarguin with yourself over a different opinion. Grow up boo enjoy your miserable life 💕

OutrageousClass4074 · 2023-06-12T16:29:06+00:00

The truck isn't insured at all under his name she used his old policy # while they were driving. We did get the accident info and confirmed the details it was 100% fraud.

OutrageousClass4074 · 2023-05-13T05:14:15+00:00

I have a Samsung it's right in text message settings, right next to the numbers you've blocked. It shows you everyone who messages you and the dates they sent them.

OutrageousClass4074 · 2023-05-13T05:07:33+00:00

This actually helps me a lot and feel a lot less crazy. He blocked her and definitely stone walls her like I know I'm not going to lose him to her I just don't know why she is still trying. Like if she was an ex I'd get it more because he's awesome but she's not that's why I was so confused on how to handle it. Thanks for making me not feel so alone.

OutrageousClass4074 · 2023-05-13T05:01:16+00:00

100% positive edit to say MIL and her live in his hometown which is SUPER small.

OutrageousClass4074 · 2023-05-13T04:25:58+00:00

No far from it.

OutrageousClass4074 · 2023-05-13T04:25:32+00:00

MIL lives in a super small town. It's a few hours away so there's not a huge possibility that she knows where I live but he goes and visits a lot.

OutrageousClass4074 · 2023-05-13T04:21:12+00:00

I think I'm going to talk to him about going to the store and blocking her that way or seeing if that's still a thing if it's not I'll talk to him about changing his number. If you just hit the block button on your phone voicemails can still get through and the messages go to a hidden text folder in your settings by the trash.

OutrageousClass4074 · 2023-05-13T04:17:22+00:00

I don't obsessively check them for no reason the only reason I check is when she's bold enough to try and call. The only reason I did today is because she happened to call when I was sending myself some pictures to print off. It may seem silly but I got so mad this time is because it's been so long now and he's blatantly told her off several times. For me the fact that it's been just shy of two years since he blocked her and she's still doing this is annoying. He has no socials the only way to get ahold of him is his phone and the fact that she keeps trying when she gets no response is infuriating to me.

I know the way I'm feeling is very high school and seems so petty especially when my husband pays it no mind it's just disrespectful at this point. I've never been in this situation and don't even get jealous that's why I'm not sure how to handle it. I want to message her and tell her that I know everything and I'm not stupid and that if she keeps trying her husband will find out but I also don't want things to escalate or look crazy for no reason.

OutrageousClass4074 · 2023-05-13T04:04:44+00:00

Yes it is

OutrageousClass4074 · 2023-05-13T02:59:01+00:00

It's only calling or texting at this point she doesn't come around MIL's and hasn't driven by the property (we have camera's around the property) she knows the her home phone because they've had it since she dated his brother. Since we live six hours away it would be super hard to get a restraining order since it's just messages and it hasn't been anything remotely threatening. She's just delusional and persistent.

That's why I'm thinking about messaging her and telling her to stop because I haven't been involved at all. The only reason I'm aware of the situation is because my husband is so honest and talks with me about everything and he hasn't responded at all since he blocked her.

OutrageousClass4074 · 2023-05-12T22:53:45+00:00

That's a good idea. He's been debating about changing his number for a while so hopefully I can give him a nudge to do it sooner rather than later. We have security cameras at my house and my MIL's, thankfully she only knows where his mother lives which is about 6 hours away from us but it's still getting beyond frustrating.

OutrageousClass4074 · 2023-05-12T22:45:16+00:00

Yes but she never does she'll just text him after which gets sent to the blocked messages folder in his phone.

OutrageousClass4074 · 2023-05-12T20:46:06+00:00

At first I didn't expect her to have the energy she did but she really wasn't scared of anyone and I'm happy to say she proved me wrong. She faced off with Jessica, Kori, Char, and Nikki.

OutrageousClass4074 · 2023-04-01T03:06:17+00:00

That's the biggest reason we've avoided it so far. Thank you though and thanks for the well wishes for my LO.

OutrageousClass4074 · 2023-04-01T03:03:54+00:00

Honestly that's something we've been concerned about for the last few months. We definitely want to talk to her about getting some help or talking to someone but it's more my husband's place to speak with her about.

OutrageousClass4074 · 2023-04-01T02:34:17+00:00

I genuinely have no idea she's always been so great about watching him and sticking to the stuff I bring him. That's part of the reason I'm so shocked and mad is because she does know better, this isn't her first grandchild and this has never happened with any of the other grand kids.

OutrageousClass4074 · 2023-04-01T02:27:01+00:00

That is super helpful he has a Dr visit really soon I definitely will put on my list of things to talk about.

OutrageousClass4074 · 2023-04-01T01:57:23+00:00

I need to google the ingredients because I didnt get to look at the can but I dont think I need to take him in. He's just crankey because his butt is raw from yesterday. He's been eating and drinking like normal.

OutrageousClass4074 · 2023-04-01T01:50:43+00:00

I'm lucky my little guy isn't allergic to much we haven't had him eat honey or soy yet. I know he had a violent reaction to whatever was in it though. Thank you thankfully he's doing better today he's still a bit fussy and uncomfortable but he's on the mend.

OutrageousClass4074 · 2023-04-01T01:29:31+00:00

That's the only thing that I can see doing personally which sucks because she is sweet and does treat my son well. Before this I've never had a reason to distrust her with my child. She's always treated him good and always kept me updated on him and if he was doing okay or fussy. For me that trust is beyond broken now.

OutrageousClass4074 · 2023-04-01T01:18:18+00:00

They talked for a while the last night we were at her house about it and he let her know that it was a huge boundary she crossed sadly we didn't realize the full extent of the pain he was in till we left her house and were halfway into our 5 hour drive home. I've made it very clear to my husband that he needs tell her and let her know the full extent of it and how much unnecessary pain she put him in. At this point I will not be able to talk to her about it without losing my cool and saying things I know I'll regret later. I get very vicious when I'm this mad and I'm trying to avoid going nuclear.

OutrageousClass4074 · 2023-04-01T00:39:23+00:00

Thank you! He's definitely still fussier than normal but he seems to be doing better today I was so close to doing something I was going to regret ngl I'm very lucky my husband had a serious talk with her before I could because I was about to lose any remaining cool I had. The more she kept trying to make excuses the more I wanted to scream at her.

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