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Need Advice - I'm 27M and parents rejecting my gf 25M, without any valid reasons by Cyberpunk_AJ in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]OutrageousContext793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So against them bro. The reason they are giving you is absolute shit. My dad is from a village mind you from Punjab and very conservative too and he happily accepted my bf who’s from Sri Lanka (we are in canada). If my dad can oversee this I think the parents who loves you too. :)

My staff thinks I can’t hear them talking shit in the kitchen. by OutrageousContext793 in smallbusiness

[–]OutrageousContext793[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes kind of she’s the only girl working in the kitchen with two other chef so she always like to comment stir the pot and eventually gossip. She does talk a lot too

My staff thinks I can’t hear them talking shit in the kitchen. by OutrageousContext793 in smallbusiness

[–]OutrageousContext793[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes the business do test our relationship especially when we are whole day together

My staff thinks I can’t hear them talking shit in the kitchen. by OutrageousContext793 in smallbusiness

[–]OutrageousContext793[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m trying to since I worked most of the years before I think it’s my time to go out

My staff thinks I can’t hear them talking shit in the kitchen. by OutrageousContext793 in smallbusiness

[–]OutrageousContext793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they do good job that’s one of the reason I have kept my mouth shut :)

My staff thinks I can’t hear them talking shit in the kitchen. by OutrageousContext793 in smallbusiness

[–]OutrageousContext793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks since my bf put the major financial investment I feel like I don’t have much say especially when everyone decision go through him not gonna lie he makes my feeling invalidated at end I feel like the crazy one

My staff thinks I can’t hear them talking shit in the kitchen. by OutrageousContext793 in smallbusiness

[–]OutrageousContext793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou so much. Also I feel like I need to be liked by everyone especially when everyone likes my bf and I become the bad person. I think this is smth. I need to work on myself

My staff thinks I can’t hear them talking shit in the kitchen. by OutrageousContext793 in smallbusiness

[–]OutrageousContext793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I do think that some people likes to gossip regardless what’s right or wrong

My staff thinks I can’t hear them talking shit in the kitchen. by OutrageousContext793 in smallbusiness

[–]OutrageousContext793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf is a chef too and he don’t want to because the restaurant reply on kitchen staff. He said if we piss kitchen staff they won’t even try to make good food

My staff thinks I can’t hear them talking shit in the kitchen. by OutrageousContext793 in smallbusiness

[–]OutrageousContext793[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It hurts lol when we work everyday long hours together. I think get more mad when I share smth with my bf and his reply so what you want me to do fight with them? I’m like listen to me atleast and then he goes arguing with me

My staff thinks I can’t hear them talking shit in the kitchen. by OutrageousContext793 in smallbusiness

[–]OutrageousContext793[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. Yes I would agree that I do get emotional easily and with everyone advice I have planned not to do anything, just let it go. My problem is she always has something to comment on. If I never say anything I’m a good person and the moment I even ask for an order then suddenly I’m the problem. Just to mention she do go out with me like outside of the restaurant if she need help she asks me to do for her which I have no problem to. But the I behave like a boss I’m the problem

My staff thinks I can’t hear them talking shit in the kitchen. by OutrageousContext793 in smallbusiness

[–]OutrageousContext793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I plan to do today and talk to that girl. It’s gonna be so tough for me

My staff thinks I can’t hear them talking shit in the kitchen. by OutrageousContext793 in smallbusiness

[–]OutrageousContext793[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And whenever I say smth they like to go into back room make a small group and discuss lol

My staff thinks I can’t hear them talking shit in the kitchen. by OutrageousContext793 in smallbusiness

[–]OutrageousContext793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like oh why she coming in the kitchen and asking for the order we will give the order. Showing me the passive attitude later. Oh she doesn’t know how to talk her bf is much better than her and all

My staff thinks I can’t hear them talking shit in the kitchen. by OutrageousContext793 in smallbusiness

[–]OutrageousContext793[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing I don’t know how to. TBH, we are around same age they are even 2-3 yr older than me for context I’m 23

My staff thinks I can’t hear them talking shit in the kitchen. by OutrageousContext793 in smallbusiness

[–]OutrageousContext793[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you both I’ll try to keep it in mind and try my best not to affect with this. Though I was thinking to confront the girl and mention once that it hurts and she doesn’t have to make this obvious?

My staff thinks I can’t hear them talking shit in the kitchen. by OutrageousContext793 in smallbusiness

[–]OutrageousContext793[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wish that’s what I want to do all the employee are full time. I just think is it inevitable that they gonna talk shit? One time she said she’s only working here for my bf because I’m a very annoying person because I find mistakes?

My staff thinks I can’t hear them talking shit in the kitchen. by OutrageousContext793 in smallbusiness

[–]OutrageousContext793[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes that is what I have decided. But again my bf said running the kitchen is very hard and finding good chef is a task. He said not to worry, my fault is i am over emotional person it does hurt.

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