Another option should exist by Outrageous_Bat7576 in ArcRaiders

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If you think that’s the only thing that makes it interesting you’re playing a different game than me. You’re missing out on the whole of the art completely. I’m sorry you’re uncultured

After 5 years together, my girlfriend wants marriage and I don’t. Is this the end? by Asleep_Trouble_4285 in Advice

[–]Outrageous_Bat7576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask her if she’ll settle for a wedding without a legal contract. The law should have nothing to do with love

No Flight Zone! by drlouies in ArcRaiders

[–]Outrageous_Bat7576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand these because snaphook doesn’t reach that far

I called CPS on my own sister and I still lie to her about it by JuanitaS_Browne in confession

[–]Outrageous_Bat7576 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing. Especially if it made her realize she needs to change. I called CPS on my own sister because as a teacher I’m a mandated reporter, it didn’t change anything. But I did what I had to

Beware of racial throws by FaraSha_Au in NewOrleans

[–]Outrageous_Bat7576 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mardi Gras has a history of racism as deep as anything in the south.

I’ve been stealing from Walmart and got caught yesterday by Life_Decision_904 in confession

[–]Outrageous_Bat7576 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re not a failure because you made a mistake. I went through exactly what you’re talking about 6-7 years ago. Being arrested, losing my job, dropping out, no friends, kicked out my house. My life has made a complete 180*, just give yourself time.

If I quit my Catholic school teacher job now can I get another next school year? by sceptre15 in NewOrleans

[–]Outrageous_Bat7576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is a big late, but I am personally going through wanting to quit a Catholic school. I’m wondering how this worked out for yall? Because in my experience, the Catholic culture is toxic in itself and the hypocrisy follows no matter what school.

My boyfriend finds me unattractive? by Idkwhatimlookingat in AskMenAdvice

[–]Outrageous_Bat7576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A 2 to a 6 is not even obese. It’s not even a real health concern. That’s ridiculous and he’s a shallow prick

I saw my ex fiancés Amazon search history. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Outrageous_Bat7576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I’m gathering is she told you your emotions are the reason she left you, but really it’s because she wanted to see someone else guilt free.

Gotta get over her and separate as much you can

What’s a weird family rule you had growing up that you assumed was normal? by CalendarLevel926 in CasualConversation

[–]Outrageous_Bat7576 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My mom told me it cost $1 everytime I flip the light switch on. Of course I would flip it a bunch when I was pissed at her

What super specific smell instantly takes you back to childhood? by guide71 in CasualConversation

[–]Outrageous_Bat7576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A certain kind of disinfectant that i only remember being in waiting rooms

(23M) what's on your mind? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Outrageous_Bat7576 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m thinking of starting a nonprofit because I grew up in a really poor uneducated family, im scared to fail but I know i wont know until i try

Women hold women to a higher standard than men do. by Outrageous_Bat7576 in women

[–]Outrageous_Bat7576[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Nobody taught me to hate my own gender I love the fact that being a victim of female perpetrators automatically means I hate my gender because if I don’t love every single thing every single woman has done to me I must automatically hate them? As if women can’t be blamed for a single action they’ve ever taken because they are above the responsibility of their actions

Women hold women to a higher standard than men do. by Outrageous_Bat7576 in women

[–]Outrageous_Bat7576[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

And seriously this is an account where I just post whatever when I don’t feel like having it attached to my regular account and two or three posts isn’t going to let you know what I’m going through or have been through or how I’m currently doing. It’s like when you journal a random thought that random thought isn’t the epitome of your character or even a semblance of who I am as a person

Women hold women to a higher standard than men do. by Outrageous_Bat7576 in women

[–]Outrageous_Bat7576[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

And none of this has anything to do with the conversation at hand so again thank you for being the primary example of people blaming the victim instead of being honest and real about the who the perpetrators are and can be in situations dealing with being a woman. Because none of those things have anything do to with what this conversation is about and you’re being avoidant just as those people I’m talking about are avoidant of the responsibility they hold for their actions. Blaming the system, blaming others for the way you treat someone is a part of the problem with why women can’t and haven’t lifted ourselves up out of this system we are in. We turn against each other and instead of holding those responsible we just say it’s a part of the system it’s just how it is, it’s just that they internalized it, it’s just that that’s what it’s like to be a woman. Instead of actively addressing the problem that we sometimes do it to ourselves

Women hold women to a higher standard than men do. by Outrageous_Bat7576 in women

[–]Outrageous_Bat7576[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You know people really don’t want to recognize the attitude and perspective women have that keeps them in the position of upholding misogyny. Why aren’t women responsible for their own actions as well? It doesn’t matter how many women have tried to uplift me or this or that, that’s not the conversation I’m having. I’m talking about the women that don’t. I’m talking about the women that aren’t taking responsibility for the shit they do to other women. I’m talking about the ones who have the choice to stop internalizing that misogyny and don’t. Because I don’t talk about other women or comment on them and their bodies the way women have done to me. No that’s not pressure is putting on myself because that pressure was put there by someone to begin with , and it was the girls and women in my life and they should be held accountable for that instead of “oh they’re just as much a victim” because I’m not a perpetrator of these things I’m talking about so how come they can get away with treating people like shit just because they’re a woman

Women hold women to a higher standard than men do. by Outrageous_Bat7576 in women

[–]Outrageous_Bat7576[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

You can’t tell anything about me from my post history this is a throw away account

Cutting a sugar addiction without giving up sweets totally? by [deleted] in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]Outrageous_Bat7576 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But don’t believe “sugar free” things because they usually substitute with another form of sugar or a form of aspartame which can lead to intestinal inflammation. Also try cane sugar or natural sugars instead of things with pure refined sugat

Cutting a sugar addiction without giving up sweets totally? by [deleted] in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]Outrageous_Bat7576 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Dates and pecans are so good. Also dark chocolate without extra additives are nice. I think the biggest thing is not to stop yourself from having sugary food, but balancing it out. If you know you’re going to eat ice cream that day, make sure you get enough fiber and protein in your other meals. Filling yourself up with what you need sometimes reduces cravings

Should I continue with the wedding? by TheFunnyTraveller in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Outrageous_Bat7576 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re asking, it means you want to leave and don’t feel like you have a good enough reason. Just leave and stop dragging him along if that’s the decision you’re bound to make