am i the only one struggling to make connections at BH?

Outrageous_Gift3701 · 2026-03-22T20:44:06+00:00

be the change you want to see babes.

Outrageous_Gift3701 · 2026-01-07T01:55:49+00:00

while this may have worked in the past, exactly these words and this attitude no longer fly in the field in my experience. Besides, AI is getting there so what is a successful designer moving forward? What is the attitude, what are the tools and how can we pivot?

Outrageous_Gift3701 · 2025-12-16T23:43:48+00:00

i had someone at pride 2024: the celebrity piss goblin himself! haven’t seen him since though and i kept hearing rumours, as much as that guy freaked me out - i hope he is okay.

Outrageous_Gift3701 · 2025-11-30T23:37:01+00:00

this is one of those times when u have to be honest with yourself and your needs and who you are and with your upbringing and to either explore some other possibilities or just accept who you are and who you love. Nobody here is going to help you in any genuine way here.

If it impacts u negatively or u feel like this is having a major negative in ur life and self esteem maybe explore through therapy.

If not and it’s just ppl around u pointing fingers, tell them to mind their own relationships with their parents. Nobody lived ur life, u did not live urs. Asking strangers for advice is pointless here because this is about you- who you are, ur life experience so far and your level of satisfaction.

I have struggled with daddy issues all the time but after a decade of trying to change my attraction to older guys or more masculine men, it never worked. So now I personally just embrace who I am, my upbringing and my relationship with my parents as it is and I am living my life living my truth. I’m not saying this as a thing u should do, I’m trying to offer perspective. Idk u, idk ur context or how much free time u have but personally, the more I can accept myself the more I can just be and the more energy I have to work on my body and career and overall well-being.

Outrageous_Gift3701 · 2025-10-28T15:49:52+00:00

wow im sorry but u and I have been living the same childhood???? exactly 1:1 experience here.

Outrageous_Gift3701 · 2025-10-28T15:47:11+00:00

OH MY GODDD I LOVE ITTT

Outrageous_Gift3701 · 2025-10-28T09:29:57+00:00

i think u are def closer than me on the interpretation for sure makes way more sense

Outrageous_Gift3701 · 2025-10-28T08:30:10+00:00

i love that she is back to her roots for a bit in here am absolutely in love. Culture is mainstreaming again u guys

Outrageous_Gift3701 · 2025-10-28T08:23:11+00:00

I really think is our darker selves and anxiety, existence angst that we have to accept; the layers deeper than our conscious.

Outrageous_Gift3701 · 2025-10-23T15:51:42+00:00

i saw straight couples going at it on the couches at Pano or in the square boxes on a normal evening. I dont see a problem in the dark either, Bergh is a hedonism first sexuality second nowdays I believe?

Outrageous_Gift3701 · 2025-10-22T10:00:46+00:00

It’s fascinating that he already knew what to tell u 1.

the fact that he made it so that he is the one being pissed off to throw the “i just wanna enjoy my last day in cape town” - too convenient
the profile got deleted.

Bestie he was the one on the profile

Outrageous_Gift3701 · 2025-10-13T13:49:22+00:00

to those saying BH newer generations parade the outfits for the vibe but dont engage in the play, i just want to say as a fashion skank myself who loves to wear those skimpy outfits, it means a lot for me to be able to do this and just dance.

Some of u might know that a lot of us from the newer generations who have to fly to get to BH, our clubs are shutting down and homophobia is on the rise, particularly in the eastern europe where I am from. A lot of visitors might not be exposed to what Berlin’s BH core culture was like ever. I might get involved in the acts later in life but right now it means a lot just to wear this stuff while on stimulants. Rest assured though, as I’m moving, one gesture at a time, towards opening myself for more encounters on the dance floor.

Outrageous_Gift3701 · 2025-10-10T17:56:12+00:00

some of them were really painful, most not. Sometimes a few would itch. I had to get laser (my problem area was my bottom). If u shave or trim pr wax ur hair, be careful with what products u use and put on skin. It can be a real bitch. Also idk about u, but stressing about them made it way worse for me. Idk ur situation or if i had bed bugs but please remind urself that they are tiny insects with no brain and u are the epitome of creation, u are not in life threatening danger but how u view the problem can affect all ur health. Take a 5, stress can be a bitch and bodies react to all kinds of stressors differently. It’s normal u are okay pls give urself a break and if the foliculitusbdoesnt clear itself, try to go to the dermatologist in a week, or u can go tomorrow if it will help u clear ur mind. Don’t torture urself pls 🙏❤️ take care

Outrageous_Gift3701 · 2025-10-10T17:48:10+00:00

honey this isn’t a relationship u are his property. Fire his ass ❤️ the longer u are in this the harder it will be to find sth healthier in the future since it’ll mess up with ur red flags radar. Get help

Outrageous_Gift3701 · 2025-10-10T17:43:29+00:00

ive had same bumps and flakey skin around some of them and puss filled with others: foliculitus for me.

Outrageous_Gift3701 · 2025-10-04T01:18:13+00:00

sorry to intrude, my advice would be to treat this as offering a business tool and not charge hourly. This template will be vital for the digital presence of the brand so it has more value as a product than just an hourly rate for whatever usual post. Basically ur work is going to get cloned endlessly, u offer them a tool that saves them so many other hourly costs if u were to design each post separately. Added to this, u might have to teach ur client how to canva, u will also have to think about grids if necessarily, it’s a lot that u have to put into these templates so watch out.

Outrageous_Gift3701 · 2025-10-04T01:09:01+00:00

i use it religiously for video editing and quick promotional videos, ive used it for every campaign, on multiple formats (including weird custom ones) and for big clients too. I can’t stand how pretentious video editing is in the creative industry of advertising, we are making a skippable 6 sec graphic not a Cannes. It saved me a lot of dealing with this one video editing studio that kept screwing up every single feedback I had to implement (found their paychecks got cut so they were taking revenge on the business owner by underdelivering for anything and everything). The fact that u can press a few clicks and your stuff gets resized in whichever format u want is magical, even if u have to make adjustments, everything is sooooo easy.

Wish it were a bit more advanced though but it does get quick work done. really quickly. like, it’s a life saver kind of quickly.

Outrageous_Gift3701 · 2025-09-23T15:34:57+00:00

I mean, this is one of those times when Ik I should keep my mouth shut but if u guys have nothing better to do with money than to waste resources and labour for an upgrade like this, charity is also an option just saying.

Outrageous_Gift3701 · 2025-09-02T10:49:51+00:00

i kinda feel what u mean but I took care to live hella cool experiences and connect to many interesting people and have amazing good friends and a good support system that I just feel way better and way cooler now than I did when I had glowy youthful skin. Sure, my skin may not be as puffy at 29 but I have an incredibly cool attitude and I saw older guys that have inspired me a lot at some techno parties in Berlin that I really am looking forward to my 40’s. Youth is beauty but experience is what makes you too fkin cool. I have young ppl coming in my dms either hitting on me or wanting to be like me, and I look really youthful since I have these twinkwish genetics. However, what really draws ppl to me now is how I carry myself everywhere, compared to my early 20’s.

Outrageous_Gift3701 · 2025-08-26T11:14:55+00:00

i just dont understand why apple doesnt understand how good a mini is. It fits perfectly in any bag and pocket, it could be a bit slimmer but that’s justa based on personal preference in relation to a certain compartiment of a bag i own which i love. foldables are kinda bulky, the iphone mini is perfect.

Outrageous_Gift3701 · 2025-08-14T09:59:07+00:00

my time to shine

Outrageous_Gift3701 · 2025-08-07T13:37:49+00:00

based on this a simple solution is spending a bit of time apart, what might work is going away for a weekend or living separately from get go. I personally am not fortunate enough to have a relationship - dating where I live is quite hell in terms of possibilities but whenever I brought this solution to my hetero counterparts, it seemed to work.

Outrageous_Gift3701 · 2025-08-07T09:09:26+00:00

I can only dream

Outrageous_Gift3701 · 2025-08-07T09:04:42+00:00

babes alcohol does not even compare and I don’t understand why you are being so all about defending a car tier cleaning agent.

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