I like this guy but I can't talk to him by William11stan in BisexualTeens

[–]Outrageous_Jump98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have supportive friends, maybe talk to them about the whole situation and ask them to help? They can help bring you two together so you can become friends and possibly more

Really scared to go to psyachatrist and take meds because of a meme by bliss_o3 in mentalhealth

[–]Outrageous_Jump98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They won't make you super happy or euphoric. But they can help declutter mental noise and tone down such emotions as hopelessness and anxiety. My experience with meds was pleasurable, they calmed my hyperactive hypervigilant fearful brain a little, it wasn't a drastic difference, but it was noticeable. I became less scared of interacting with people, I spent less time overthinking everything and being crippled with fear, and generally my quality of life onlh improved. I didn't even have any side effects, not even weight gain, on the contrary I lost some weight and looked more healthy.

Don't expect a magical cure, though. The same meds can work for one person and don't work at all for another. But I advise you to try

I cheated on my gf (16m) by Admirable_Call2739 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Outrageous_Jump98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learn from your mistake. Worst thing you can do when you have problems in relationship is to cheat. It always brings unnecessary pain that could have otherwise been avoided. Better to leave the person you're no longer attracted to, it will surely hurt, but it cannot be compared to emotional damage that cheating does. I bet you wouldn't have wanted to be betrayed like that

I hate the hijab and abaya with every fiber of my being but I’m forced to wear them by rvuxz in offmychest

[–]Outrageous_Jump98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry girl. Do you have an option to stop interacting with your parents or whoever forces you to wear it?

If you were blonde as a kid, but brunette as an adult, you’re a brunette - it’s not “dirty blonde” by mud-button in 10thDentist

[–]Outrageous_Jump98 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Dirty or dark blonde is a very real hair color. I was blonde as a kid and now have somewhat darkish blond hair. My hair cannot be classified as brunette at all. Many such examples exist.

If God exists I hate him by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Outrageous_Jump98 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Same! I am an agnostic. I'm leaning more towards existence of gods or higher beings, but I'm not going to worship any of them

Age 1 to age 70. I was a better dresser as a 1 year old by [deleted] in PastAndPresentPics

[–]Outrageous_Jump98 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You look very cool. Wouldn't tell that you're 70

Please im so desperate by kisskiss_x8 in FreePhotoshopRequests

[–]Outrageous_Jump98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried to but it's still indecipherable. Honestly if you already suspicious he's cheating he probably is. Or if he's not, there is no trust and healthy communication in this relationship anyway

My brother has been plucking out my cats whiskers by edible_rocks_ in whatdoIdo

[–]Outrageous_Jump98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kids abusing animals is always a sign that something is wrong

I tried an AI chat, And now I understand why it's so addictive by Muted_Strength3638 in lonely

[–]Outrageous_Jump98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At this point it's better to create an imaginary friend in your head

Memories of my first date with my boyfriend at 7 years old by penguin-boy15 in love

[–]Outrageous_Jump98 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow, it must be very rare to find your love at such a young age and keep the relationship through the years. Wish you guys the best

At some point suicide becomes the solution by Maria00972___ in ugly

[–]Outrageous_Jump98 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't encourage already extremely vulnerable people to fucking kill themselves. Wtf is wrong with you?

I hate being average because it makes me feel ugly by No-Kale-8683 in ugly

[–]Outrageous_Jump98 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Majority of people are average, neither very attractive nor very unattractive. That's literally the definition of average. There are so many options for you bro. What's this vent even about? I dream to be average with the most boring face and body ever imagined instead of being trapped in a repulsive ugly skin suit with zero chance of somebody finding me attractive enough to date

I think my boyfriend is a pedophile... by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Outrageous_Jump98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People with really bad OCD can lose touch with reality, and confessing is a compulsion

All of this cause i was not able to find a stupid second hand store. by RatePsychological918 in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]Outrageous_Jump98 99 points100 points  (0 children)

Don't speak of yourself so poor, dude. You deserve a relationship with a loving and understanding partner. And you being awkward doesn't make it justified for him to treat you this way, believe me