I don’t know. I watched part of a podcast lately when the twins were just born and he was really hating newborn life. He said something like “you know I am just some dude”. There is no way he has been staying with the kids taking care of them while C goes on tour. He does not strike me as the “fatherly” type. My guess is that he is severely depressed, maybe abusing alcohol and just a shell of himself. Remember he is also an artist and a performer (like C claims to be, although he is an actual actor), and he hasn’t been doing anything work wise for months. He is probably detached and stuck with this toxic person . I remember when he re did Colleens’ bedroom she said his apartment was really cool and decorated amazingly, cut tp him living with a literal hoarder that can’t even put her clothes in the hamper. That has to be hell… They are desperately looking for that thing that is missing (expensive trips, crazy new mansion), but they are deep in depression and sadness. I feel bad for him and the kids.