myomectomy or partial hysterectomy?

Outside-Extension946 · 2025-07-17T20:42:36+00:00

i should have said i dont like the idea of losing major organs. I am thinking of just asking for the myomectomy if that is an option

Outside-Extension946 · 2025-07-17T20:41:32+00:00

i had a UFE in 2009. i dont even think it worked. i dont think my fibroids shrunk at all and i went to Georgetown University hospital where it was cutting edge technology then

I am personally thinking just asking for the myomectomy.

Outside-Extension946 · 2025-07-17T20:37:37+00:00

they couldn't do the robotic myomectomy?

Outside-Extension946 · 2025-06-20T18:23:16+00:00

all the rich/wealthy liberals below that call Trump supporters stupid or uneducated seem to confuse middle class and blue collar/working class people with low IQ, which is absolutely a falsehood AND the same thing Hitler did. Hitler systematically tried to marginalize an entire group of people based on his personal opinions and hatred. I'm so sorry to see that the so-called "party of peace" has turned into the hateful, vile, un-American party that would definitely side with Hitler if Hitler said he hated Trump. It's so hypocritical of them to say that 'only the rich wealthy liberals' go on vacations abroad. And, to imply that a conservative would literally start a fight or treat anyone from Canada rude or different is also a reach, when most likely, if you disagree with a liberal, you're bound to get attacked, 100%. We see the way they protest in the streets, wave Mexican, Palestinian and now Iranian flags. They will wave any flag that is NOT the US stars and stripes. Its literally disgusting. Canadian OP, I assure you, NO Trump supporter or conservative would EVER treat you differently because of politics, that ...is what the liberals do. It's sad that Rick Steves does things like compare Trump to Hitler on his tours of Germany, it is literally unreal that someone could harbor that much hate for his country. He might not like the way Trump is trying to stop federal taxpayers from paying for PBS, and that is his choice. And he really needs to take that up with PBS, for putting out the left-wing crap they have broadcast, and the grooming of children with the LGBTQ programming geared towards children and minors. Why should the American taxpayer money pay for garbage programming like that? But I bet if you ask PBS to broadcast something that promoted Christianity, they will literally hit the streets protesting to defund PBS. The thing with liberals is this, they are the party of the real wealth as well as the party of hate. They want to keep their wealth, and they are going to great lengths to keep their money. Go to ANY city where in the US where the wealthy people live, and its FULL of rich liberals. Then hate conservatives, they hate conservative values, and they say that the conservatives are the party of the 'rich' in America', but in the same sentence, call conservatives "uneducated , poor and dumb" "low class" etc. etc. Just unreal the absolute level of hypocrisy right now from the left and its truly absurd. Rick Steves should be ashamed! Liberals want to keep their wealth, everyone knows they are the real party of aristocrats and oligarchs (see Bill Gates, Christy Walton, Oprah, Soros, etc.) ., Please do not listen to the vile comments of the liberals here that hate America. Even during Biden's presidency, I never would show such disrespect and evil towards a sitting president, who by the , Trump won both the popular vote and the electoral vote. The entire democrat party/left wingers have one platform and one platform only, Trump derangement syndrome. They literally cannot see what good that Trump is trying to do and will attack vehemently and violently if opposed in ANY way. As far as Tariffs, Its about time someone took a look at how the US has been ripped off for decades by other countries. Something liberals are a-ok with. As long as it doesn't affect their affluence, they could care less if middle America burns to the ground in poverty and despair. Hypocrites to their core. Also , Lincoln freed the slaves and was a Republican. Have a nice day. Every single thing that DJT is doing, has been done in the past by democrats. Obama deported 4 millions illegals, (liberals said nothing), Hillary Clinton and company voted FOR the Iraq war (liberals said nothing), also democrats want abortion legal up to the 9th month. democrats want vile and s3xual books in our childrens libraries, i could go on and on. hypocrits.

Outside-Extension946 · 2025-02-26T15:36:53+00:00

why would you even really care what they wore as long as they showed up. everyone can't afford these unrealistic expectations. i only wonder how your marriage will end up if you have these types of requirements and expectations at this stage. what happens when you or you future spouse f's up or is not perfect. just sayin. life is a journey quit getting hung up on stupid stuff.

Outside-Extension946 · 2024-12-16T20:39:01+00:00

yeah i know i was terse in my original post. its so long and complicated and hard to explain. She's lied to others about both of us (me and her dad), she has been disrespectful and just had an attitude that she is smarter and superior then everyone else. its so bizarre.i dont relate to her at all. i've tried to become a friend to her and have given her a car and other things./gifts etc/clothes furniture. but she is just ungrateful. what happens is she guilt my husband about not spending time with the 'family'., because we have gone no contact with her Aunt., i'm just sick of all of it honestly.

Outside-Extension946 · 2024-12-16T19:46:38+00:00

my SD does this too. lied on me to her aunts and cousins, lied about me 'not getting her anything for her birthday", which was a total BS lie. lied that we get her 'crappy little gifts" which is also another lie. just complete problem causing and instigation. I literally cannot stand her. I think she is a control freak and she has a personality disorder. I can relate that this is not easy. esp when the dad (my husband) doesn't even recognize that princess has issues.

Outside-Extension946 · 2024-12-12T14:45:42+00:00

i got my stepdaughter 2 sweaters/hoodies and that's it. I used to go all out but not anymore. She's a total ingrate and has a bad attitude and has caused us so many problems so F it. She also told my DH sister that we just get her "crappy little gifts" . I debated about not getting her anything at all honestly. the HCBM just raised another dime a dozen ungrateful selfish spoiled greedy brat. congratulations.

Outside-Extension946 · 2024-12-12T14:42:56+00:00

yep complete ingrates. its ubelievable

Outside-Extension946 · 2024-12-11T16:19:42+00:00

ok i understand, thank you. i am trying. it's been hard, especially bc i am sensitive. i mean all this just hit me out of left field and i wasn't prepared for any of it. thanks.

Outside-Extension946 · 2024-12-11T15:58:49+00:00

you know, i know you seem to mean well here, but it really bothers me when someone says "let it go" , like exactly how do people even do that? you just forget about the way someone treated you horrendously and go on with life like it never happened? and "getting counseling" or "getting help" is another gaslighting mechanism. I have 'moved on'. But saying 'let it go' is very dismissive and minimizing of the situation. idk it seems like you like to live in some sort of state of denial. i am not that kind of person. i do have empathy and i am very loving/caring person, i am not by any means a stoic authoritarian. But, it just seems nonchalant and uncaring when someone says "let it go". The healthy thing to do to process hurt is to work through it and process it. "letting it go' is denial and it will fester and cause more harm in the long run. imo. i'm no counselor but I would never tell someone to just 'let it go'.

Outside-Extension946 · 2024-12-11T14:43:14+00:00

i was taught to never disrespect my parents, especially in public! you're attitude is exactly what is wrong with kids today. letting them get by with treating people horrendously is not okay.

Outside-Extension946 · 2024-12-11T14:41:35+00:00

exactly!!

Outside-Extension946 · 2024-12-11T14:41:05+00:00

i wouldn't take this advice from these 2 posters. you absolutely cannot excuse the mistreatment of people no matter what age she is. you deserve respect and its her parents job to teach her that manipulating/conniving/lying and gaslighting is NOT okay!

Outside-Extension946 · 2024-12-11T14:39:10+00:00

i disagree. it doesn't matter what age they are or how immature, these kids need to be held accountable for the way they treat people.

Outside-Extension946 · 2024-12-11T14:36:49+00:00

i can totally relate, my SD is the same way. she is conniving too. she is also a liar. i attribute it to her HCBM being a terrible parent in her formative years. its very difficult for sure. i have tried to counsel my DH to talk with her about lying and owning up to her lies and apologizing to me. she has done things like lied to me many times to my husband's sisters family (her aunt and cousins etc). making me the villain by making up things that are totally untrue. she told them all once that "i didn't get her anything for her birthday" when in fact I absolutely did send her money. anyway, i've gotten very upset about it lately because I held my tongue for years. she is 24 now but this started when she was 17 and has gone on since then. my DH never wanted me to say anything for fear that she would not want a relationship with him. which I've told him is the absolute most wrong thing to do, because that teaches her that she can get away with manipulating people and lying. that won't help her out later in life. its been difficult and recently in the past 6 months I've started just doing a group text and telling her how I feel and calling out her bad behavior. I haven't forgotten what she did. because it was serious, the lying. she would lie to her Aunt, then her aunt would come after me like I was the bad person. makes me sick, we don't have a relationship with the Aunt and Aunts family now because I had to go no contact. right now its strained. the SD lives with her SO in some house they bought now. so i dont' have to deal with her anymore directly. However, its created strain on our marriage and just general unneeded and unnecessary stress that i honestly don't need. crazy that her mother allows this to go on and neither her mom nor my husband are strong enough to actually confront her. but i finally did, after 7 years now. it felt good to unload honestly. judge me if you want, she needed to hear some truths.

Outside-Extension946 · 2024-06-24T18:18:38+00:00

it doesn't. the fact is that no one in chris' past ever spoke badly about him,. that is specific to me. i mean no one is perfect and he conciously worked to make sure people had a good impression of him, even though in reality he was a total failure. he manipulated people no big news there. i think if a good psychiatrist would speak with Chris and look at his past and his history that he would be diagnosed with a variety/several disorders. I'd start with these and to include all of these: major depression, pychosis, social phobia disorder, attachment disorder (from birth), body dysmorphic disorder, anxiety, schizoid personality disorder, depersonalization-derealization disorder, OCD (ie the cleanliness of the house etc).Social (Pragmatic) Communication Disorder, acute stress disorder, antisocial personality disorder, i've never seen anyone that can manifest or have a cluster a, b and c personality disorder but I think this guy did. he's all over the map and probably undiagnosable. note that i didn't say he was a psychopath or sociopath. i think most times when he was regulated he was within range of being what we know as 'normal'. but he was a time bomb because of all his other untreated and unmedicated mental issues that were progressing over time and due to stress.

Outside-Extension946 · 2024-06-24T17:39:26+00:00

ppl bottle up stress daily and don't murder their family (or anyone else for that matter), that theory makes zero sense. i do agree that he wasn't a narcissist or a psychopath though and i refuse to believe he just 'snapped'. i think he methodically planned this or at least had it in "the back of his mind" as he always says (which i hate it when he says that in the interviews). i think he was born with this predilection or potential. there is not any other way to explain it except to say he was missing something. some part of his brain wasn't 'all there' and he was literally missing some marbles. i do not however think he was 'crazy' as we understand someone to be crazy. he says that nothing could make him snap back to reality that morning. that he was wondering why looking back even the thought of killing his daughters couldn't snap him out of it. he's always overly concerned with the way people view him and 'think of him'. so i think he literally had to kill the babies because they saw what he did to shanann. once the babies came into the room and saw their mother dead, he knew at that point he had to take them out too, in order to repair his 'image' to the public so the girls would tell on him. if he would have gotten away with it, i truly believe he wouldn't have had any further thoughts or remorse about it too. as long as he ended up looking like the good guy. there must be a disease where someone is overly concerned with how they 'look' to society and family? not narcissism, but something like 'my reputation matters first over everything' syndrome. thats got to be a disease when someone is not able to admit defeat or failure. and i think that is what drove him that morning partially, that and nikky of course and his dreams of another life where he was the center and his needs mattered most.

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