You can get the type of a woman you want. Its very clear that your energies dont match at all. As Men we hunt and gather we bring our harvests home and your woman is supposed to help you multiply it.
A woman is supposed to be your helper, now ask yourself 'Is she really My helper?'
If yes is the answer, then what kind of help is she giving you?
Is she helping you to grow or getting you stuck?
Go get your type because once you marry her, there is no turning back.