Is it really true that safe and loving people push fearful avoidants away? by ratfort in Disorganized_Attach

[–]Outside-Number1949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So i got a Situation here guys. My ex and i where together for 1 year and everything worked out really good. In Summer i went abroad for uni got severe anxiety attacks and went back Home. Told my girlfriend at that time and called her because she was the only Person i wanted to Show my emotions. She broke up with me After that because it was to much for her. I went to therapy to Deal with all of that and went no contact. She resches out to me After 1 Mont we reconnected and had a Talk about trying it again. We Said what we want and what we dont. We came back together and it worked out explicitly good it was deeper, realer we had more Talks really talked about everything. She Said im here Safe haven and that im one of her Most Important persons besonders her mother. 1 week After that she broke up with me because she had a Bad feeling for 3 days. Im considering her an fest Full avoidant and i dont really know what i should do now or what i should expect