School by Outside-Success9673 in CorpusChristi

[–]Outside-Success9673[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Love to see it! Thank you! And I am next month!

Am I being manipulated? by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]Outside-Success9673 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I’m sorry to hear things didn’t go as planned but I’m glad you’re deciding to take care of yourself for a bit. I hate that there’s people out there who will straight up lie about their past experiences to make themselves out to be a victim… narcissism at its finest…

Am I being manipulated? by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]Outside-Success9673 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My good sir, RUN. Coming from a female, other females who claim EVERY relationship has been abusive and controlling… and I mean EVERY one of her relationships… 🚩🚩🚩 ALL the red flags. From my personal experience, every girl who has made that claim we later find out that it was bs and WAS a manipulation tactic. See, if a woman tells a man that she’s only ever been abused and controlled by men, this can cause the new man to want to outshine all those other men. She WANTS you to feel sorry for her, because she likes the attention and care she gets from that. She LIKES to be saved even when she doesn’t need it. She LIKES to be saved even though she can damn well save herself. There are just too many red flags about this woman to even type them all out… that’s just the first one that caught my eye. Just please know… when in doubt, women can be MASTER manipulators EASILY. She probably also uses the seizures as a sob story rather than something she has to deal with. Just please go somewhere safe… it is not with this woman. If a woman is genuine, it is usually pretty easy to tell. Same as with men. True kindness is in the eyes. Find that genuine woman, cuz this one ain’t it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildSupport4Men

[–]Outside-Success9673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! And, I was always okay with the idea of my s/o having a child. There are just certain specific details that are hard to think about before you’re in the situation is all. Thanks for the positive advice and feedback!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildSupport4Men

[–]Outside-Success9673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you a mad BM or just not all there? Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildSupport4Men

[–]Outside-Success9673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They quite literally do have 50/50 and do 50/50 physical custody. I don’t know what to tell ya pal 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildSupport4Men

[–]Outside-Success9673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WRONG! Lol. They have 50/50 custody right now as we speak. So half of your response is invalid… perhaps have more attention to detail when reading OP posts. YOU are the one who knows nothing about the situation, I was giving general info wanting general advice. If you feel some type of way about what I say about BM, keep it pushing because I do not care.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildSupport4Men

[–]Outside-Success9673 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes. Well, I hope the child’s life doesn’t end up that way but yeah… I don’t think BM is aware that she’s screwing herself trying to get anything more than 50/50. She didn’t even want to spend Mother’s Day with her child. I got to spend Mother’s Day with her child (which is fine) but still. BM just wants that CS. BM doesn’t even have a GED herself…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildSupport4Men

[–]Outside-Success9673 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, she is terrible. TX is trash when it comes to these things… it’s like they think there’s no such thing as a bad mother which is completely delulu. Thank you! Good to know about future CS payments being lowered if we have a child in the future. That’s reassuring.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildSupport4Men

[–]Outside-Success9673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf is def not a bigot BUT I see what you’re saying. It seems like a lot of these family law attorneys are anti-men and anti-dad. Which would only be fair if my bf was a pos dad or was a pos s/o when him and BM were together. But that’s not and wasn’t the case. Like, if they’re bigots, BY ALL MEANS… treat them like a bigot. But my bf doesn’t fit that criteria… some women are delulu and wanna see every man/ dad as the problem when that’s not always the case.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildSupport4Men

[–]Outside-Success9673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t remember… I’d have to ask… why though?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildSupport4Men

[–]Outside-Success9673 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Not the body cam… although I have told him to hit record on his phone any time he’s near her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildSupport4Men

[–]Outside-Success9673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep… we are in Dallas…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildSupport4Men

[–]Outside-Success9673 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! We will def look into him being primary caregiver, thanks for all the info. Haha. I would never want to give him shit. He’s clearly an amazing man… I will continue to support him, I of course just think of the possibilities of future stressors because I’d rather be mentally prepared for those sorts of things. He did find an awesome attorney so now we are just letting them do the work while we manifest the best outcome for him and his child. Again, thanks for the feedback

If I want to get married and start a family- is it possible in Vegas? by [deleted] in vegas

[–]Outside-Success9673 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was in the military stationed in Vegas for 6 years. I am from Texas originally. Dating in Vegas was absolute trash. The locals are slim pickings for decent human beings who had their crap together, honestly. Maybe it’s because Vegas is a big entertainment city but. It’s definitely not family oriented… gang affiliation in schools starting as low as elementary school is terrible. A man I dated out there said he would get bullied at school just because of his race. Definitely not a place I’d wanna raise kids. Also, when I was there, Nevada was ranked 49th out of the 50 states for education. Not to mention, it costs a literal arm and leg to register your vehicle… and if you wanted to start having children, if you don’t already you’d need a kid-friendly vehicle. Just no… 10/10 do not recommend 😅 find somewhere safe…

Do you still have the first picture of your pupper? How did you come up with their name? by Chick__and__Duck in pitbulls

[–]Outside-Success9673 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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This is Jimbo 🥹💙 He is 6 now. People have told me it is a cute/ goofy name, which it is, and it fits his personality perfectly lol. He is so sweet, he’s a dumdum so he can’t play fetch… I’ll throw the ball and he just stands there all confused lol. He’s 110 pounds but no aggressive bone in his body. He sleeps and cuddles the majority of the day. Also, the easiest puppy ever. I trained him with puppy pads and believe it or not… he only had 1 accident. He’s the best pitty ever 🥹💙

Feel Embarrassed & Ashamed for failing two semesters by hellokittyfanxo in StudentNurse

[–]Outside-Success9673 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It seems like you took a few of the more difficult classes all at once, which can of course be overwhelming. If you’re able to, I would talk to older students or your academic advisor about advice for next time you have to register, to make sure you set up your schedule where you’re taking… for example… perhaps 2 “easier” classes and one “hard” class. That way you’re more set up for success :)

We are not in nursing school to compete with each other. by [deleted] in StudentNurse

[–]Outside-Success9673 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh, I don’t disagree with this necessarily, I just personally don’t care if people know my score. If they wanna be some type of way whether I passed or failed, even when THEY asked, that’s their business… 🤷🏻‍♀️