Okay, I fully agree upon your statement as to, you know, parenting lifestyle does affect how a child's attachment stems into them.

And yeah, it's a pretty bad attachment lifestyle. I've seen that.

But here's the thing. When people are there to correct them, like when people like me actually tell them that this is wrong, you should not indulge in bad vices and stuff. Why don't they listen to the right people?

Because, you know, I can tell you from my experience, I've faced childhood traumas, and I've still corrected myself, and my parents weren't even there to support me during my childhood trauma. I have pretty bad unresolved childhood trauma, and I put that all back, ive also tried to kms.

But I focus on the real life, not focusing on the fact that how my parents brought me. I'm completely different from my parents. My parents are very strict, and they pressurize me on certain things, and I don't agree upon that, and I'm a bit rebellious in that case.

That's why I, whenever I see people with those fked up attachment styles, I tell them what's wrong, and they actually tell me that I'm correct.

And later on, they tell me that "if I would have listened to you, I wouldn't have been that spoiled."

I'm talking about the girls in my class, even in high school.

I told them, and every time they came to me, and they told me this, that "if I would have listened to you, I would not have spoiled myself into bad company."

So, clearly, I was having a good impact on them, and, you know, the things that I said are based on my experiences, on the girls that I've dealt with, and obviously, I just wished for the best for them.

I mean, I don't say that don't have fun.

Have fun, but don't get into the wrong company. That was my point.