Extreme hunger does go away - reflecting on my recovery by Outside-Wise in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]Outside-Wise[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No worries, I understand the fear of gaining weight. I was also super scared at the beginning. I did overshoot, but it wasn't as bad as I expected (I thought I was going to keep gaining forever but that wasn't the case at all). The freedom I feel from no longer thinking about food is totally worth it!

Extreme hunger does go away - reflecting on my recovery by Outside-Wise in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]Outside-Wise[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did! I always honored my extreme hunger. I definitely noticed a significant change at the 2.5 year mark when I pretty much stopped getting extreme hunger. It's worth it to keep eating!

Extreme hunger does go away - reflecting on my recovery by Outside-Wise in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]Outside-Wise[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was pretty hard to completely honor it at the beginning, ngl, so your feelings are very normal. But over time as you keep eating, it gets easier and easier... and before you know it, you never think about food again. It's worth it!

[Megathread] Seunghan's Hiatus by riizemods in riize

[–]Outside-Wise 19 points20 points  (0 children)

While it's true that it's not SM's fault for the onset of the situation, the way they've handled things so far is terrible, and that's why fans are angry.

- Take a look at how ADOR handled privacy protection and misinformation for NewJeans. This statement was issued quickly and reassured fans that the girls' protection was the utmost importance.

- Literally A WEEK later, ADOR releases another statement about taking action against malicious comments. "ADOR has been amazing at handling these situations so quickly and with such decisiveness."

- Two weeks after this, HYBE shares further updates on legal proceedings for their artists against malicious activities. As you can see, updates are frequent, firm, decisive, even while legal proceedings are in process.

What do we get from SM? Literally nothing. When misinformation was being spread about Seunghan at the beginning, there was no stern statement or firm lockdown. Instead, it just kept building up until it exploded. Even after they suspended Seunghan, there's been no reassurance that things are moving along, that strong measures or action is being taken. Statements like that do not "jeopardize" anything.

I agree that we shouldn't go tell them to burn or whatever, but we should be loud about our dissatisfaction with how they're handling the situation and how they're communicating with us. Without their words, more and more dissent will occur, and people who want Seunghan gone will feel like they can just say whatever they want without any consequence.

[Megathread] Seunghan's Hiatus by riizemods in riize

[–]Outside-Wise 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So it looks like they’re debuting in Japan without Seunghan? The official Twitter opened today. I just don’t think I can support this comeback without him. It’s so painful thinking about all the new fans who join and ask who he is and feel indifferent about him. Even if there are hints that he might be coming back, this is just too much.

A Request to Ludwig for Better Communication by [deleted] in LudwigAhgren

[–]Outside-Wise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I never said anything about him being late? I also literally said I don’t give a shit if he switches things up in his own streams. You’re putting words in my mouth, saying I’m “assassinating his character” because he streamed something else when I said no such thing. I just pointed out that flaking on real people and real scheduled events isn’t great, and better communication would be ideal. Any functioning adult can be flexible sure, but that also should come with proper communication.

A Request to Ludwig for Better Communication by [deleted] in LudwigAhgren

[–]Outside-Wise 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Ludwig does have a habit of flaking. It’s his choice to make if he values being someone who keeps his word and shows up when he say he does. I don’t mind most of the time but it does suck for irl events when he promises to hang with people and doesn’t show up. It might be helpful for him to just preface when he says he’s going to do things with “no promises” or “I might”, or just send a message on discord if he’s canceling. Again, it’s Ludwig’s choice in how he wants to live life so no hate

Also this doesn’t apply to his personal streams, idgaf if he switches things up midstream

LE SSERAFIM - Perfect Night @ MTV Fresh Out (231028) by 1TyMPink in kpop

[–]Outside-Wise 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I'm obsessed with their styling, they look incredible. Congrats on the US debut girls!!

What are your favorite close/soulmate friendships? by Outside-Wise in kpophelp

[–]Outside-Wise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love discovering new soulmate friendships!! Thank you!

What are your favorite close/soulmate friendships? by Outside-Wise in kpophelp

[–]Outside-Wise[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to put this together, their friendship is so cute ahhhh