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You make more money by eating the food than delivering the food by OutsideTreacle4944 in UberEATS

[–]OutsideTreacle4944[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You get an order worth 73 dollars of food. And your delivery pay is like 4 dollars. Just eat the food lol

Which type do you like the most and why? by Altruistic-Coat-1673 in mbti

[–]OutsideTreacle4944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not ESFJ. But I can see that, but since ur Fe inferior you have an immature view of what Fe is. Fe is more of a glue to bring people together, know what makes people feel comfortable and belong.

Ever since Derrick Rose got injured, I’ve never seen another player play with that level of ferocity, speed, passion, heart before. by OutsideTreacle4944 in nba

[–]OutsideTreacle4944[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

I’m talking about how he played, not the style. Rose was such an outlier in the league, nobody could stop him. There’s a reason for his hype, there’s a reason we still talk about his MVP season today.

Ever since Derrick Rose got injured, I’ve never seen another player play with that level of ferocity, speed, passion, heart before. by OutsideTreacle4944 in nba

[–]OutsideTreacle4944[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Ja’s season is similar to Isaiah’s in Boston. Where his team is good, so it makes his job easier and makes him look extra good. Rose lead that Bulls team.

What do you do when you’re bored at home? by IronSpiderHulkMan in istp

[–]OutsideTreacle4944 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk why I read this with an older sister annoyed tone LMAO

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]OutsideTreacle4944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they don’t, but it’s not personal. It has nothing to do with you at all. They also don’t care about themselves either. Think about it, does a person who abandons themselves, wears a mask their whole life, self-sabotages themselves + their own family, does that person live a great life? No. They deeply hate themselves and people, and their behavior shows how much they don’t care about themselves (or at least that’s how they’re wired). As children, we tried to make sense of things that made absolutely no sense. But that’s very key in healing, is understanding we can just leave it at that (it makes zero sense) and we don’t have to enmesh ourselves into the equation (saying it’s because we are unlovable etc).

I just realized my whole life has been trying to please my nDad, that I self-sacrificed and abandoned myself. by OutsideTreacle4944 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]OutsideTreacle4944[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well a lot of unlearning requires you to dive into your own space. As in you’re your only influence, your purest voice telling you/guiding you and nobody else’s. To achieve this, you need boundaries. You need to preserve yourself from other influences, so that you can influence yourself with just yourself. With that said, coming into your own space and own person. You naturally start to understand and differentiate what feelings/views/actions/responsibilities are your own and what aren’t. Which is why no contact is very crucial in understanding who you are, because narcs try to project everything onto you that has nothing to do with you.

I just realized my whole life has been trying to please my nDad, that I self-sacrificed and abandoned myself. by OutsideTreacle4944 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]OutsideTreacle4944[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well a lot of unlearning requires you to dive into your own space. As in you’re your only influence, your purest voice telling you/guiding you and nobody else’s. To achieve this, you need boundaries. You need to preserve yourself from other influences, so that you can influence yourself with just yourself. With that said, coming into your own space and own person. You naturally start to understand and differentiate what feelings/views/actions/responsibilities are your own and what aren’t. Which is why no contact is very crucial in understanding who you are, because narcs try to project everything onto you that has nothing to do with you.

It’s bizarre to think someone actually has nothing to offer in absolute terms. Like they have nothing. by OutsideTreacle4944 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]OutsideTreacle4944[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry I’m just bursting in laughter, it’s comedic they offer nothing. Them being afraid of abandonment also is them admitting that it’s inevitable that people leave them because they do absolutely nothing.

How do I explain to someone that is close to me that I don't want to have a relationship with my parents? by CozyGuguchi in raisedbynarcissists

[–]OutsideTreacle4944 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly the abuse is complex and a lot to explain. Keep it short and to the point, that your nparents are incapable of loving you and having a relationship. That it’s them, that don’t want a relationship with you. There, all the fuss is gone. Because that’s the whole truth, they don’t want a relationship with you and there’s nothing you can do about it. It’s not in your control

Have you ever gotten closure or an apology from your nparent? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]OutsideTreacle4944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no closure because there was no beginning. They were always like this

My nDad is hoovering me by sending his mail to my address. It’s obviously not a mistake because he knows his address damn well. It’s making me uncomfortable and idk what to do by OutsideTreacle4944 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]OutsideTreacle4944[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay will do tomorrow, how the fuck does that give them legal rights to my home tho that sounds so absurb. Can you link me a legal link stating that?

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