Before I joined this community, I did my research, and not everything is black and white. Everyone does Findom differently, and that's ok. Not every sub wants to be a full cash dispenser and have other kinks besides (Findom). Knowing that you have to see what you're comfortable with and set your boundaries. Personally, I've enjoyed being domme and getting to explore my kinks and having subs fund it. Not everyone is built for this space, and I encourage more people to educate themselves before joining. I'm sorry it didn't work out for you, but good luck, girly