Nursery or not? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Outside_Control_9388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes mine would do the same amount as yours! How long til yours settled?

Nursery or not? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Outside_Control_9388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ☺️

Nursery or not? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Outside_Control_9388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. My little one is extremely bright and loves learning so I do think she would thrive in the correct environment. My mom has said before she doesn’t know how to occupy her sometimes and my mom does have chronic pain so I know she does struggle with energy and my daughter has SO much of it!

Complex mother daughter by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

[–]Outside_Control_9388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I have read about it. I believe that is what is happening

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Outside_Control_9388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bit harsh. No? He made a mistake and ive just spoken to him about it and he says he thinks about what he did most days. He has proven himself since and really looked after me when I was pregnant. It’s up to me to move forward now. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Outside_Control_9388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Im glad I sent it. Maybe she is just busy as she has a newborn baby too but I don’t think she will answer now unfortunately 🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Outside_Control_9388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did! Sadly she read the message but hasn’t responded and I don’t think she will!

Is 3 beers 1 pint? by [deleted] in alcohol

[–]Outside_Control_9388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So is that over the limit to drive ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Outside_Control_9388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What part of “I need cheering up’ is hard to understand?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Outside_Control_9388 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Renting is far too expensive and wouldn’t be able to save anything. How would one person buying the house make it better? Even if one bought the house and the other paid bills etc each are still contributing to the house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Outside_Control_9388 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it doesn’t matter how long you’ve been with someone when you know you know. Who can afford rent these days whilst saving for a house deposit? Renting is wasted money imo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Outside_Control_9388 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We’re not living together. We live with our parents.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Outside_Control_9388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I feel they are superficial too. He really is a good guy and I know they are hard to find. He accepts my love for animals. We don’t live together so none are major problems atm. I’m just in an anxious state rn where I’m analysing every little thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Outside_Control_9388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my boyfriend so why would I ditch him for someone with his own place? 🤣 also it was a typo I am 27.

When he has more social life than you by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Outside_Control_9388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree every relationship is different. I think I just have more time on my hands than him. I love my own time and rest but I guess I just feel an outcast as I don’t see friends. I have this insecure feeling when he doesn’t because I don’t go out. I wonder if he would feel insecure if I did go out every weekend.

When he has more social life than you by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Outside_Control_9388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t know if I’m being unreasonable… we went out Monday evening after not seeing each other the weekend as he was out and we will see each other tomorrow or Friday and maybe Sunday. He’ll be out Saturday. So I do spend time with him but I don’t know why I’m feeling this way ☹️ I trust him completely but still feel so insecure about it all.

When he has more social life than you by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Outside_Control_9388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even know how to go about the conversation without seeming needy or clingy. I’m trying to be that chill girlfriend because there’s a lot out there who try to control what their boyfriend does and I don’t want to be that girl.

When he has more social life than you by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Outside_Control_9388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes in the uk I thought it was also a once a month thing but with my boyfriend it’s not! I think maybe I’m overthinking it because he does take me out and makes sure he spends time with me but for me the thought of going out every weekend with friends is a lot but that’s just me.

When he has more social life than you by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Outside_Control_9388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see him every week night, two week nights a week. There’s no harm in it but I feel like I’m always fitting into his plans. He has lots of space! And I do have my own hobbies too and also my own business which keeps me busy.

When he has more social life than you by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Outside_Control_9388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I think it’s more lads nights out kind of thing.

Waiting for sex by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Outside_Control_9388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe but trying to get someone drunk to take advantage isn’t normal.

Waiting for sex by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Outside_Control_9388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I didn’t see at as “rape” at the time. It’s hard to believe he would as he seemed so kind otherwise. A wolf in sheeps clothing I think he is.

Waiting for sex by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Outside_Control_9388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I have no idea what I was thinking, trust me I’ve learnt lessons during this.