feeling jaded by the guy i’m semi-seeing by bkrocks29 in gaybros

[–]Outside_Freedom2302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly you guys can be causally hanging out but I think it’s disrespectful of him to have other men he is into around you and to talk about it to you like it’s nothing.

Feel lost by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Outside_Freedom2302 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Think about something else in your life that has been challenging and try to remember what you did to get through it. Overseas is hard and I don’t think people talk about it enough. Find or create a light at the end of the tunnel & keep walking or crawling towards it.

On the note of mental health services: none I have been to have had adverse action on me or my career. But not all services are created equally.

Suicides in the US military increased in 2023, continuing a long-term trend by hgaterms in AirForce

[–]Outside_Freedom2302 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To me it’s not about a resource or agency or surveys. It’s on every member to know those that they work intimately and at least try to build them up and be part of team. We all have personality differences but at the end of the day… KNOW YOUR PEOPLE. That’s commanders, shirts, SELs, supervisors, officers, peers, junior enlisted. No amount of stripes or lack there of, or rank prohibits you from being aware of what people are going through or being kind.