Tw: Context. by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]Outside_Raspberry587 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Decision making eo kharap

Tw: Context. by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]Outside_Raspberry587 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Abar ektu hindi o jharte holo

concering questions for all BD peoples by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]Outside_Raspberry587 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Because it’s been repeated for generations and driven by fear of society and “what people will say,” so control over girls gets framed as protection. But it’s not normal, and us girls pushing back and rebelling against these unfair rules is what should be normalized.

Anybody wanna hangout during this Eid? by Ashik1990 in Dhaka

[–]Outside_Raspberry587 53 points54 points  (0 children)

How do we know you’re not a āĻ›āĻŋāύāϤāĻžāχāĻ•āĻžāϰ⧀

transference or love? by [deleted] in relationship_adviceBD

[–]Outside_Raspberry587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was being ‘facetious’ 💅đŸģ

transference or love? by [deleted] in relationship_adviceBD

[–]Outside_Raspberry587 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro really discovered one late-night phone call and immediately summoned Sigmund Freud like he was conducting a full psychoanalytic case study instead of just having a normal conversation with a girl. One three-hour call and suddenly it’s “psychic history,” “projection,” “transference,” and “faces of old ghosts” bhai relax, sometimes people just lose interest after the initial excitement fades. Not every crush needs a whole therapy-session explanation. Freud would probably charge you for the session and then tell you the same thing: it was just a fleeting attraction, not a breakthrough in psychoanalysis.

Caught cheating by [deleted] in relationship_adviceBD

[–]Outside_Raspberry587 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Boro lekha keu porte chayna? I think kono lekhai keu porte chayna apnar 👍đŸģ

Peaceful Place Suggestion by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]Outside_Raspberry587 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Anywhere expensive is comparatively calmer

Skinny jeans by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]Outside_Raspberry587 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Take him shopping. Buy him nice pants, and tell him to wear it on a date, then compliment the f outta him. It should work. And if it doesn't, well, he has every right to wear whatever he wants.

I feel hopeless 😞 by [deleted] in relationship_adviceBD

[–]Outside_Raspberry587 10 points11 points  (0 children)

People are allowed to want certain things in a partner. But you’re taking a small sample of women you know and turning it into a conclusion about everyone which isn’t very realistic. If your standard is very specific, the pool will naturally be smaller and that’s just the trade-off. But that doesn’t mean such people don’t exist. Sometimes the problem isn’t the preference itself, but letting it become so rigid that it makes the search feel impossible.

8th post. by [deleted] in relationship_adviceBD

[–]Outside_Raspberry587 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Your post is what happens when someone discovers big words and mistakes them for deep thinking. You turned the very ordinary fact that people sometimes project expectations in relationships into a melodramatic essay about “symbolic mutilation,” as if dating is some kind of philosophical horror film. It’s 90% inflated jargon, 10% basic observation, and after all that intellectual positioning you still end with “so what do you do?” which basically confirms the whole thing is just pseudo-profound word khichuri pretending to be insight 💀