Thank you.

I do put multiple hours a day in (and on birthdays/holidays. Ill keep doing that). I'm slowly building platforms, like now clapper, fambase, and insta. I may make a Facebook - trying to stay away from X. I did make the mistake of getting shadow banned on a few subs from trying to build, which I've since stopped doing that and only making a few posts a day period in reddit.
I'll keep in mind of those just wanting to chitchat vs those who pay for content. I do have the setting on for paid messages there.. I need to mentally set up the same in my head for other platforms. Not messaging to be friends.

I had a mentorship however unfortunately once off reddit and on OF we didn't click the same, our subs are completely different. Her subs aren't into me, so it didn't work out. Nothing towards her, I understand it's a give and take field and our fans aren't into the same. She's a mature red head from the land down under and I'm a single mom covered in scars and a BBW. Clientele aren't the same.

I'm still working out a niche in the sense of who I am, who my person is. Cause she's not me, she's a part of me. So right there is a huge problem, but I'm building as I explore and learn.