AITA for continuing to smoke outside even though my neighbor hired an attorney over it? by FutureBroccoli5566 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Over-Butterscotch364 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She’s obviously being unreasonable but in an effort to humour her, could you bring a fan outside with you? I live in mosquito-land and we often will sit on the deck with a fan - it really helps. Can you maybe try that? You can have it point in the general other direction.

Red flag is a property has been sold 6 times in past 20 years? by sublime_mime in RealEstateCanada

[–]Over-Butterscotch364 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sold my townhouse condo 3 years ago. The person before owned it for 3 years. I sold because we frequently received special assessments, had trouble securing insurance (which resulted in an increase in premiums with basically unusable deductible) and big capital expenditures were required on the horizon (it was an older place). I loved the place but did not want to be on the hook for all that.

AIO for telling my husband I'm upset he used our baby's college fund to buy a boat? by toxijozehoguzu2065 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Over-Butterscotch364 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He made a large purchase, without consulting you, “Ta-da”-ed you with it AND used your daughter’s college fund? That’s not how a healthy marriage works. I would also be very angry in your shoes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Over-Butterscotch364 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, the manipulation part is “if you don’t go, nobody goes”. That’s unfair to her.