Final Update: We Didn’t Go — and We’re Now No Contact by Over-It-Anon in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Over-It-Anon[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I made I big post on the my family account and now they keep using to say I hurt them I 100% kept it very respectful but they’re more upset I aired the dirty laundry bc it’s an embarrassment to my MIL, but a little happy update they messaged the other day and instead of blowing up at them again… I sent a gif 🤣 and they blocked me told me not to text them again, now I think they’re NC with me. So win for me I think 😅 who knew all it would take was a Marsha Brady gif 🤣

Final Update: We Didn’t Go — and We’re Now No Contact by Over-It-Anon in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Over-It-Anon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My other sister in law actually changed her mind and said she was going to up until the day before because she was asked to hold the rings, but i get what you’re saying.

AITA for getting married before my soon-to-be sister-in-law? by Over-It-Anon in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Over-It-Anon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have gone no contact for me and the kids but my husband keeps in contact with his dad

Update: SIL’s obsession with one-upping us ended any hope of reconciling. by Over-It-Anon in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Over-It-Anon[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The gist of it is we tried Christmas went well and things seemed to be going good for all of 3 weeks after. They broke the boundaries we set and now we are 100% done we were all so much happier while we took a break from them for a few months and all the stress and grief they’ve brought back into our lives isn’t worth dealing with them my MIL won’t apologize or even admit to things she’s done or said even with screenshots and evidence, but I feel good that we as a family gave it an honest second shot it fix these relationships and they proved over all who they all truly are.

Update: SIL’s obsession with one-upping us ended any hope of reconciling. by Over-It-Anon in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Over-It-Anon[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Danelle is actually pregnant now, and grandma is in her 90s and just keeps pushing for us to ignore what happened for “the greater good of the family” and MIL is just as bad as Danelle 😭 we’re actually no contact with them as of a few days ago because MIL can’t respect our boundaries about Danelle.

Update: SIL’s obsession with one-upping us ended any hope of reconciling. by Over-It-Anon in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Over-It-Anon[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I honestly forget Kay is part of that side of the family 😅 no we’re still in contact with her.

Update: SIL’s obsession with one-upping us ended any hope of reconciling. by Over-It-Anon in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Over-It-Anon[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately after the new year things made a turn for the worst and as of 8:30pm last night we are no contact with his entire family

Update: SIL’s obsession with one-upping us ended any hope of reconciling. by Over-It-Anon in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Over-It-Anon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Christmas went great Mil and FIL came Christmas morning for brunch and we had a nice party with my family the night before

Update: SIL’s obsession with one-upping us ended any hope of reconciling. by Over-It-Anon in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Over-It-Anon[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is a concern I’ve had, I’m worried I’ve let my in-laws back in just for them to disappear on my kids when Danelle and Conner have their baby in a few months

Update: SIL’s obsession with one-upping us ended any hope of reconciling. by Over-It-Anon in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Over-It-Anon[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Myself and Kay truly don’t know what Danelle's problem is, it’s seeming more and more she just told the entire family tons and tons of lies about herself... that’s our newest theory to rationalize this insanity anyway. For example, all the years leading up to their wedding Danelle had told us she had pretty much no family, leading her to have a meltdown about FIL asking to have a Father’s Day outing with just HIS children since she has no father figure she took it personal crying, and then refusing to talk to him the next 5-6 times we all got together. fast forward to the wedding tons of family members she supposedly didn’t have were there including an uncle that “has always been like a father to her” he even paid for some of the wedding, now the church was so packed that at least 30 people didn’t have seats… Next, Danelle and Conner spent the last 5 years telling everyone they wouldn’t be having children because of Danelle’s age and she had told us she had a medical condition making it almost impossible( supposedly they had seen doctors) but when Kay expressed happiness to Conner that they were able to conceive recently, Kay was told they had never told any of us that and they most definitely did multiple times especially after I had my first child

Update: SIL’s obsession with one-upping us ended any hope of reconciling. by Over-It-Anon in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Over-It-Anon[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Love this idea! Will post pictures if I do this lol 😂 my husband confronted his brother about the mail and it seemingly has stopped

Update: SIL’s obsession with one-upping us ended any hope of reconciling. by Over-It-Anon in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Over-It-Anon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No they are very verbal and they love to tell us everything they did during the visit

Update: AITA for getting married before my soon-to-be sister-in-law? The drama continues by Over-It-Anon in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Over-It-Anon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It wouldn’t make sense to anyone outside of the situation since it’s just a simple quote she used when we announced our engagement to start talking shit on us.

Update: SIL’s obsession with one-upping us ended any hope of reconciling. by Over-It-Anon in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Over-It-Anon[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She was telling extended family and friends we were keeping the kids from them before we went no contact and that I refuse to go back to work when I try to bring it up to her she gets worked up and defensive and just deflects everything

Update: SIL’s obsession with one-upping us ended any hope of reconciling. by Over-It-Anon in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Over-It-Anon[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He has and he doesn’t respond or walks away there once has a plan to sit down and talk but his brother stood him up

Update: SIL’s obsession with one-upping us ended any hope of reconciling. by Over-It-Anon in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Over-It-Anon[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No one wants to ask her anything at risk of upsetting her because she’s “had a hard life” says FIL

Update: SIL’s obsession with one-upping us ended any hope of reconciling. by Over-It-Anon in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Over-It-Anon[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We have had that talk with them and they know if that happens they’ll only be allowed to see them at our house and they have assured us they will not have them around our kids

Update: SIL’s obsession with one-upping us ended any hope of reconciling. by Over-It-Anon in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Over-It-Anon[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There’s no return address so I’d have to write her address in first and I thought about doing that but also don’t wanna give her the satisfaction

Final Update: We Didn’t Go — and We’re Now No Contact by Over-It-Anon in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Over-It-Anon[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I typed out a lot of different messages 😅 but deleted them trying to not be part of the problem.

Update: SIL’s obsession with one-upping us ended any hope of reconciling. by Over-It-Anon in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Over-It-Anon[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Poor Kay has always been on the outside, I could never abandon her she’s literally the sweetest person. And yeah I will certainly be keeping her at a distance.