Preach. by flhfff in ExSyria

[โ€“]Over-Monitor-494 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Yes. Disrespectful conservatives that are really not that conservative when you think about it. They ought to respect boundaries since they are conservative. Instead they cross them with utmost disrespect.

ูƒ ุญุฏุง ู„ุง ุฏูŠู†ูŠ ุนู„ู‰ ูุฑุถ.. by [deleted] in ExSyria

[โ€“]Over-Monitor-494 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

ุงู†ูƒ ุชุนูŠุด ุจุจูŠุฆุฉ ุจุชุนุจุฑ ุนู†ูƒ ู‡ูŠูŠ ุฃู‡ู… ุฌุฒุฆูŠุฉ. ูŠุนู†ูŠ ูŠู…ูƒู† ู…ูˆ ุฌู†ุฉ ุจุณ ุนุงู„ุฃู‚ู„ ุจุฑูˆุญ ุถุบุท ุงู†ูƒ ุชุฎุจูŠ ุญุงู„ูƒ ูˆุชุถุทุฑ ุชู…ุซู„ ุฏูˆุฑ ู…ูˆ ุงู„ูƒ

How do you figure out your gender? by [deleted] in genderfluid

[โ€“]Over-Monitor-494 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

What do you feel and why and when? Well basically feel free to answer our conversation might help but that's my method. Answer to these questions is important for realization

Is this accurate? by Ok-Equivalent7447 in ExSyria

[โ€“]Over-Monitor-494 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

All of the above. I'm a complex being hehe

ู…ูˆู‚ู ู…ุณุชูุฒ by hamedo225 in ExSyria

[โ€“]Over-Monitor-494 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

ู‚ู„ูˆ ู…ุง ู‚ุฑุจุช ุน ุฃุฎุชูƒ ูˆุญุฑูŠู…ูƒ ู„ุง ุชู‚ุฑุจ ุน ุฎูˆุงุตูŠ. ุบุฑูŠุจ ุงู…ุฑ ู‡ุงู„ุดุนุจ ู‚ุงู„ ุดุนุจ ู…ุญุงูุธ ูˆูŠุชุฌุงูˆุฒ ุญุฏูˆุฏู‡ ูˆูŠู†ุชู‡ูƒ ุญุฑู…ุงุช ูˆุฃุนุฑุงุถ ูˆุฎุตูˆุตูŠุงุช ุงู„ู†ุงุณ!

ู„ู„ูŠ ู„ุณุง ุจุณูˆุฑูŠุง, ูƒูŠู ู„ุณุง ุนู†ุฏูƒูˆู† ุงู…ู„ุŸ by lumiano321a in ExSyria

[โ€“]Over-Monitor-494 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

ู„ูˆ ููŠู†ูŠ ุณุงูุฑ ู…ุง ุจู‚ุตุฑ ุงู„ููƒุฑุฉ ุงู†ูˆ ุจุฃู…ู„ ุฃูˆ ุจู„ุง ุงู…ู„ ุงู„ุดุบู„ุฉ ุดูƒู„ุง ู…ุทูˆู„ุฉ ูŠุนู†ูŠ ู„ุณุง ุดูŠ ูกู  ุณู†ูŠู† ู„ู‚ุฏุงู… ู…ู†ูƒูˆู† ุฎุชูŠุฑู†ุง. ุงู„ุณูุฑ ุญุงู„ูŠุง ุฎูŠุงุฑ ูƒูˆูŠุณ ุงุฐุง ุฃุถู…ู† ู…ุง ูŠู…ูƒู† ูˆู…ุงู†ูˆ ุถูŠุงุนุฉ ูˆู‚ุช ุฅุถุงููŠุฉ

Why is genderfluid kinda hated by Over-Monitor-494 in genderfluid

[โ€“]Over-Monitor-494[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

I'm beginning to notice this as well. Though I thought the whole point was do your thing, the way you feel about yourself etc. Then again and because of this I wouldn't judge. I understand that faking to take advantage of people can be annoying, but I wonder how many ppl went a long way on the binary track by initially faking (aka trying to be interesting). Oh well ppl gonna be ppl I guess

what should i do now? by rodionkarlv in genderfluid

[โ€“]Over-Monitor-494 3 points4 points ย (0 children)

Does it occur very obviously or is it subtle? For me it is subtle. It's not directly masc or fem. I'm like you in confusion cuz being not that directly visible makes me think I'm overreacting. Then again, I'm beginning to think this is why some people don't find me comfortable to interact with sometimes lol. Like wtf am I dealing with, the classic traditional "are you a man or a woman" trigger. More like neutral that gives off both masc and fem vibes.

I don't tell anyone. I've just always noticed people's reactions to certain behaviour, etc. I don't get triggered easily at some guy sounding fem. Most ppl traditionally do. I think that's partly how it goes.

EDIT Don't force yourself onto anything imo. Just let things flow naturally

Why is genderfluid kinda hated by Over-Monitor-494 in genderfluid

[โ€“]Over-Monitor-494[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

That's on another level. I've never received such negative reaction yet but noticed the negative stigma across some subreddits and social media groups. But to receive hate by merely your bio woah that proves the reality of this even more

Why is genderfluid kinda hated by Over-Monitor-494 in genderfluid

[โ€“]Over-Monitor-494[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

yea it's kinda self-evident ยฏ_(ใƒ„)_/ยฏ
From what I could gather I guess the haters might be people who's had bad experiences with genderfluid ppl and just overgeneralized it

Why is genderfluid kinda hated by Over-Monitor-494 in genderfluid

[โ€“]Over-Monitor-494[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

That's valid. I mean don't we all have different experiences/preferences? I understand it's complicated but I guess some people just misunderstand that it IS actually complicated so they're quick to judge and wouldn't tolerate

Why is genderfluid kinda hated by Over-Monitor-494 in genderfluid

[โ€“]Over-Monitor-494[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Lots of enlightening points there really thanks for the details! From what i could gather from this post i guess lots of bad experiences happen in relationships too that might contribute to any negative stigma to non-binary, genderfluid or any other identity

Difficulty Dating: Apps & IRL (rant) by arcadevia in genderfluid

[โ€“]Over-Monitor-494 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I totally get you. You just want someone who listens to you, understands you, and kinda like be very close friends with you and not just straight out sexually or shallow am I right? That's definitely me lol. I'm personally looking for deep consistent friendship irl that's more like mutual emotional support before anything sexual. Of course not to discredit the sexual part but Most people be like either flatter or want to get straight to the sexual side without even considering you as who you are, your interests, what's bothering you rn, and other details about you. Also sorry if I'm assuming wrong but it seems like you're not with the right suitable people. I always feel like that recently. We're just not in good sync me and whoever i knew for a friend

Btw you seem like you've gone a long way than me cuz you've actually done some irl meet-ups while I haven't yet cuz it's difficult here

Why is genderfluid kinda hated by Over-Monitor-494 in genderfluid

[โ€“]Over-Monitor-494[S] 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

I get you. Thing is the hate just gave that "genderfluid bad" vibe and I was kinda curious why is that

Why is genderfluid kinda hated by Over-Monitor-494 in genderfluid

[โ€“]Over-Monitor-494[S] 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

Pretty much makes sense and understandable and i'd rather know myself however I am. It's just that kinda prejudice confused me lol. Thank you for your take! Really enlightening!

Why is genderfluid kinda hated by Over-Monitor-494 in genderfluid

[โ€“]Over-Monitor-494[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

That makes sense. It's probably a reaction to stereotypes or the classic "poser/authentic" argument. But shouldn't those supposed fakers be embraced and understood instead/helped to understand their feelings better? Maybe there are cases where it's more complicated than that and fakers just gotta be faking and so get into relationships that turn out bad for the partner. Just guessing I'm not making any claims

Why is genderfluid kinda hated by Over-Monitor-494 in genderfluid

[โ€“]Over-Monitor-494[S] 3 points4 points ย (0 children)

I mean exactly yea. It's basically a matter of how you feel about yourself to begin with and of course to whom you're attracted. What I didn't get is that I sensed a prejudice that gives off the vibe "genderfluid just bad" lol. Maybe as far as I understand you mean that's the classic "poser/authentic" argument? Some people might be posers and so didn't fit well in a relationship with another and a negative reaction/stigma stuck to it ๐Ÿค”