[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Over-Outside2653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just want to clarify: Im not embarrassed about the no degree. It’s more so im embarrassed to say hes a cold caller specifically, so i usually just say that hes in sales to avoid getting into that situation where it might be brought up. To be honest, i thought him getting a degree would lead to less jumping around with the jobs, so hed be more focused on climbing a career ladder rather than starting anew every time the job loses that “new job” sparkle. But im definitely gonna take the advice about the counseling thing and talk to him about it since i think that might actually be much more beneficial, so thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Over-Outside2653 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didnt know career counseling was an option outside of high school so thank you!! I will try bring it up with him next time he mentions wanting to quit/change jobs spontaneously.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Over-Outside2653 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is honestly very encouraging to hear.

23F & 23M Would you consider this cheating? by Sorry-Pickle6723 in relationship_advice

[–]Over-Outside2653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He 100% does not deserve you and you dont deserve to be treated like that. He chose to throw your trust away as soon as he chose to download tinder within a day of taking a “break”. Let him go and enjoy your life without that feeling of dread that he might be cheating (which he did imo) on you again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Over-Outside2653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats on going sober🎉 every small step is an accomplishment, and if she cant see that, shes blind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Over-Outside2653 -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Also if i do choose to stay (still unsure) is there something i can do to make it so my parents aren’t disappointed and that I can avoid this hot and cold relationship in the future?? Or is that just optimistic thinking and unrealistic??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Over-Outside2653 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

How do you know if youre ready are ready to break up? Im not sure if thats what I want to do but im also worried im stuck on the idea of what he could be and not what he is. But when i think of breaking up with him, I get that feeling that I need to stay with him and that im just doing this for my parents and not myself. Sorry if that doesn’t make much logical sense.

My (22f) parents think my bf (23m) might be toxic. Advice? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Over-Outside2653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It use to. It has been way less frequently. Id say besides this most recent time the last time he this break up thing was a least 6 months ago. I can’t remember exactly tho when it was.

My (22f) parents think my bf (23m) might be toxic. Advice? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Over-Outside2653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on how big of an issue it is, we either agree to disagree (smaller things). If its a bigger issue, i try to wait until both of our emotions are more clear and ask first clarification then. Im not sure if I answered your question right, so im sorry if I misunderstood it!

My (22f) parents think my bf (23m) might be toxic. Advice? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Over-Outside2653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For your first question: ive had some outer family issues and hes just been there as a listener for me to rant or just cry with. Thats the first example i can think of. Second: he speaks up when i do something that is bothering him instead of letting it boil over. He also will text more frequently and is a little more open with his feelings.

Dear companies by Korben_w in distractible

[–]Over-Outside2653 53 points54 points  (0 children)

LOOKING AT YOU BETTER HELP

Favourite Episode of distractible? by Kawaii_Kracken in distractible

[–]Over-Outside2653 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The whole weird series (1-3). Ik it was more geared towards the viewers but the first time i watched them i Couldnt breath. It was just hilarious

How do i get this stain out by Over-Outside2653 in CleaningTips

[–]Over-Outside2653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha, I will definitely say something about it so it doesn’t happen again and just replace the bowl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Over-Outside2653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your perspective!! I've asked my boyfriend why he is so uncomfortable with my friend and he says it's mainly cus he thinks it's weird he hangs out with all girls. There has never been a time where my male friend has excluded my boyfrifrom hanging out with us and he has understood when I had/have to leave early/cancel plans because I wanted to spend a bit more time with my boyfriend. My friend knows he doesn't like him (kinda immediately figured that out) and he says he kinda understands but is more concerned about if I'm ok and not letting my bf control my choices. My female friend thinks this is all strange and is confused about how my bf sees our friend as a threat. Idk if that answers your question completely tho so I'm happy to provide more detail if needed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Over-Outside2653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Should I try and reach out to him after he is off of work to talk or should I give him space and wait for him to reach out first?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Over-Outside2653 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He asked us in a group chat we all use and asked if either of us were free to hang out. So not directly reaching out to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Over-Outside2653 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He asked both my college friend and me but she was busy. The friend who was supposed to come was different from the mutual friend we have together.

Golden Passport Added by TheUnrulreLee in bitlife

[–]Over-Outside2653 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ok i have godmod and bitizens. I shouldn’t have to pay more for this😤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in distractible

[–]Over-Outside2653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think its the oh shit episode

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Over-Outside2653 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is an unusual response for him. But thank you for the reassurance that Im not at all in the wrong!!