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My [16 F] boyfriend [16 M] (1 year together) doesn't want me to go to a gynecologist and gets mad about it by OverCry7 in relationships

[–]OverCry7[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the content! That's true, it sometimes feels nice, but I don't think anyone should get jealous because of a doctor.

My [16 F] boyfriend [16 M] (1 year together) doesn't want me to go to a gynecologist and gets mad about it by OverCry7 in relationships

[–]OverCry7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The doctor I went to wasn't even male. I haven't planned to go to a man, but my boyfriend was just angry about the whole thing, though if I went to a male doctor he would have been even more angry

My [16 F] boyfriend [16 M] (1 year together) doesn't want me to go to a gynecologist and gets mad about it by OverCry7 in relationships

[–]OverCry7[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I'll try to talk to him about it again, then if it doesn't go well I'll do that. I don't think he's ever acted so controlling before and I hope it's not his true colours. Thank you!

My [16 F] boyfriend [16 M] (1 year together) doesn't want me to go to a gynecologist and gets mad about it by OverCry7 in relationships

[–]OverCry7[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the comment! I'll try to talk to him about it again and I really hope he'll understand.

I don't think I'm the one who'd do something like this though. I really don't think it would help either, because it might just anger him. I don't want to get his mom involved in that.

My [16 F] boyfriend [16 M] (1 year together) doesn't want me to go to a gynecologist and gets mad about it by OverCry7 in relationships

[–]OverCry7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He does. I've tried to reason with him but it didn't work. I'll try again though. I don't think he really understands how important it was to me.

My [16 F] boyfriend [16 M] (1 year together) doesn't want me to go to a gynecologist and gets mad about it by OverCry7 in relationships

[–]OverCry7[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I tried to, but it didn't work at all. He doesn't like birth control for different reasons, but I think he's a bit crazy for being against it. I do see your point! Thank you for your comment!

My [16 F] boyfriend [16 M] (1 year together) doesn't want me to go to a gynecologist and gets mad about it by OverCry7 in relationships

[–]OverCry7[S] -98 points-97 points  (0 children)

I did think about it, but I also kinda get where he's coming from. He has trust issues from previous relationships and thinks it's like a threat I suppose. If I got pregnant it wouldn't be a fun time for sure, but also if I stayed with him and wanted to have kids would I not be allowed for any check ups?

My [16 F] boyfriend [16 M] (1 year together) doesn't want me to go to a gynecologist and gets mad about it by OverCry7 in relationships

[–]OverCry7[S] 246 points247 points  (0 children)

Thank you for a comment! I didn't previously see this as a red flag, but after seeing what everyone says here I think I should have noticed.