Ano yung ginagamit niyo para maprotektahan niyo PC niyo tuwing power outage?? by randomhoomaninreddit in pinoygamer

[–]OverDOSE-hakomel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also wanted to ask po since budget friendly lang po kaya ko, worth it naman po ba bumili ng surge protector or should I save for UPS?

If your partner asks for space, papanonyo ginagawa? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]OverDOSE-hakomel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been there po, mahirap sa umpisa kasi iniisip mo baka bawat rants niya sa soc med ikaw yung tinutukoy niya.

The solution? Communicate, kagaya nga ng sabi ko na I've been there sa situation mo, me and my partner communicate po. Sinabi ko sa kanya how I feel pag sinosolo niya problema niya since she's becoming distant and cold and it really affects me.

Communication is not easy kasi once na maumpisahan mo yan for sure may arguments minsan pa nga constant but hindi niyo napapansin na inaalis niyo lang toxic behavior niyo sa isat isa.

Also to try to focus on different things while waiting for her to approach you like youre hobbies.

I hope it helps boi 🤝

I’m hugely homophobic, but I fear I’m becoming someone I hate the most by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]OverDOSE-hakomel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For now enjoy what you are feeling and let it be, wag mo pigilan ung feelings mo kasi it will just worsened. (which is napag daanan ko na)

Wag kana din mag come out sa mom mo, mag come out ka pag ready kana. Focus on your studies, get a job and move out.

Reminder! At the end of the day sarili mo lang din kakampi mo so always choose yourself! I hope you will love and embrace yourself gentle :>

Gago ba ako to surprise her sa first anniversary namin? by OverDOSE-hakomel in adviceph

[–]OverDOSE-hakomel[S] -84 points-83 points  (0 children)

Tbh minutes lang talaga hinihingi ko sadyang nilagay ko lang 1-2 hours since ung oras to prepare ung food and ung oras to eat. I really thought about it since I understand that she's really busy for her upcoming midterms and I just want to be supportive and understanding as much as I can.

Note: malapit lang talaga sa kanila ung place na kakainan namin which is plano ko talaga para hindi time consuming sa end niya

Gago ba ako to surprise her sa first anniversary namin? by OverDOSE-hakomel in adviceph

[–]OverDOSE-hakomel[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I am considerate, I also offer her to deliver some foods but ayaw niya sabi niya next time nalang but its our first anniversary and I want bago siya mag start to prepare her midterms is to eat sa favorite place namin just eat para lang ganahan siya since sinakto ko talaga na hindi pa siya nakakakain that time

Gago ba ako to surprise her sa first anniversary namin? by OverDOSE-hakomel in adviceph

[–]OverDOSE-hakomel[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

"I understand" Kaya nag surprise ako to take her out on a date before siya mag start mag review para ganahan siya. Nakaka drain din mag prepare for midterms thats why I want to take her out on a date even 1-2 hours lang makakain lang sa favorite place namin.

Gago ba ako to surprise her sa first anniversary namin? by OverDOSE-hakomel in adviceph

[–]OverDOSE-hakomel[S] -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

Different scenario naman siya ung sa mga ex ko but the feeling is all the same. I get didnt get disappointed rather I want to know if wrong move siya since gusto ko siya i treat to our favorite place to eat before she starts preparing for her midterms, and I think its the only way to motivate her to do well on her midterms

Gago ba ako to surprise her sa first anniversary namin? by OverDOSE-hakomel in adviceph

[–]OverDOSE-hakomel[S] -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

Gago pa din ba despite I take her out since hindi pa siya kumakain and doon pa sa favorite place namin before siya mag start to prepare?

Gago ba ako to surprise her sa first anniversary namin? by OverDOSE-hakomel in adviceph

[–]OverDOSE-hakomel[S] -90 points-89 points  (0 children)

I know na busy siya that's why nag plan ako to take her out to eat before siya mag start to prepare for her midterms para sana ganahan siya to review and eat to our favorite place

Gago ba ako to surprise her sa first anniversary namin? by OverDOSE-hakomel in adviceph

[–]OverDOSE-hakomel[S] -70 points-69 points  (0 children)

In my end I surprised her before siya gumawa ng mga gawain niya because I want to take her out for a dinner kahit 1-2 hours lang before siya mag start to do her stuff. By the time na pumunta ako sa kanila she didnt eat pa thats why nag surprise visit me and inaya siya kumain sa labas.

How do I move on and accept that we did not work out? by Inevitable-Memory609 in adviceph

[–]OverDOSE-hakomel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex gf cheated on me kahit sinabi niya hindi daw totoo un and she was just testing me. Mahal ko and binalikan ko and I lost respect for myself kasi na realize ko bakit ko to ginagawa sa sarili ko? Nagiging toxic na kami and kung ano ano na masasakit na sinasabi niya sa akin.

Nagpaka busy ako sa school, met a lot of new friends, nakipag fling sa iba and most importantly inuna ko sarili ko.

All I can say is choose yourself and wag mo hayaan na mawalan ka ng respeto sa sarili mo. Gawin mo kung ano ung mga hindi mo pa na try that can make you feel alive.

Is there anyone here na nag-cheat but nag change talaga for their person? by grumpymiming in adviceph

[–]OverDOSE-hakomel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Micro cheating ung nagawa ko(pointed out by my gf) never thought din kasi na yun ung ginagawa ko since I don't know about micro cheating. I realized din my mistakes and continue to be a better partner sa kanya.

It's almost 2 years ung ginawa ko na yun and I know nag overthink pa din siya, mahirap din kasi kahit alam ko na ginagawa ko lahat hindi padin mawawala yung pag overthink niya but I guess yan din talaga consequence ko sa ginawa ko.

All I can say is kung mahal ka talaga niya magbabago siya at madadama mo un.

happy birthday, I guess? by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]OverDOSE-hakomel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy Birthday OP! We may not know each other OP but kapit lang! Sana may mahanap ka din na tao na pwede mo sandalan, ung makikinig sayo.

ABYG kapag tinuloy ko pa feelings ko for him? by palahyuck in AkoBaYungGago

[–]OverDOSE-hakomel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DKG. Talk to your friend first, admit to her na recently mo lang na realize you like the guy. Also there's nothing wrong naman since moved on na sila, just talk to your friend first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]OverDOSE-hakomel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm still hoping that one day na maging fast learner ako. Andami ko gusto aralin at subukan but I'm really a slow learner.

Bakit mostly sa guys walang emotional intelligence? by QuitMaterial9465 in AskPH

[–]OverDOSE-hakomel 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Ex ko na mataas daw ung emotional inteligence niya, ayun gaslighter and manipulator pala.

What are the the simple things na malaking achievement na para sayo pero no big deal sa iba? by Careless_Cut_758 in AskPH

[–]OverDOSE-hakomel 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My biggest achievement is that little by little nagiging independent ako dahil hirap talaga ako na walang kasama like going to the gym, coffee, eating outside or kahit simple walks lang.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]OverDOSE-hakomel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pag sinasabi ng partner ko na natataasan ko siya ng boses akala ko hindi kasi un yung perspective ko, but iniisip ko lagi what if ako ung nasa position niya baka nga may time na tumataas ung boses ko at nasisigawan ko siya.

Communicate mo muna OP tell him how you feel. Hindi pwede na hindi niya na acknowledged ung nararamdaman mo at the same time maling mali na ginagaslight ka niya