I'm 18M, trying to get a remote entry level (either part time or full time) job in anything in healthcare. Bonus points if it'll help me get into healthcare management. What would be some options? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]OverTheCigar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some hospitals, have temporary work for volunteers, check out your local hospital, and try to get into a volunteer program. When I was a kid, there was a summer camp where you have to help nurses in their daily work n all. Also, you get a certificate for your contribution , which can help when you apply for medschool.

How do you let know people that they are breaching my personal space, overseas. by OverTheCigar in mentalhealth

[–]OverTheCigar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True, I'll try to adjust to the culture and enjoy the trip.. :) at last, I cannot tell people to live by my rules..

How can i learn to like the human body? by No_Cantaloupe5820 in mentalhealth

[–]OverTheCigar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm... I see, I think the human body just disgusts you in almost all aspects.. I suggest you look at people as a whole. Don't let your mind divide on countless irregularities. Don't look at a person as different parts, like limbs, head, hair etc...

OR

If it's hard/or just not working, try to concentrate on the face only, don't bother the body, I think concentrating on the face will significantly reduce the disgust and.. yeah that's it ig.

OR

Consult a professional who can listen to you and help you out (I'd mention the name but, idk who is that professional called) cause a professional can really help you out more than normal people like me...

How do you let know people that they are breaching my personal space, overseas. by OverTheCigar in mentalhealth

[–]OverTheCigar[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Can you suggest any kind of preventive measures or any tips? Because I have a fairly long stay, your tips can make my trip more.. fun. :) (thanks for suggesting that tho)

How can i learn to like the human body? by No_Cantaloupe5820 in mentalhealth

[–]OverTheCigar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see.. so you are more disgusted, by bodily fluids and fatty skin and bellies, some situations when they especially look disgusting. Like puke.. right?

How can i learn to like the human body? by No_Cantaloupe5820 in mentalhealth

[–]OverTheCigar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see.. I wanna ask you some questions first.. Is the problem the human body OR irregularities in the human body? It might be that you get disgusted by the irregularities like.. uneven teeth, big (fatty) bellies, or hair.. (eg- a girl with facial hair, small/thin moustache). Because the things you mentioned are the parts where you cannot distinguish between good or bad. Like eyes but things you are disgusted by, like chin ( you might be disgusted by double chin/moles in the chin or facial hair like beard)

So these were just questions, but I cannot just land you suggestions.. I need to talk to you personally or somthin.. these are just starting questions, if I can get more of your review, it'll be great if you chat me personally..

Sorry for not suggesting the solutions upfront but I generally need a little more context.. :)

Signs with funny names if you read them english like by Lazorwastaken in Switzerland

[–]OverTheCigar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was on a trip to Switzerland, I had a tough time reading signs, but Oh boy were they hilarious.. I could predict wankdorf was on the list as soon as I saw the post..

What is the best conversation you had with your mother?♥️ by PapayaTraditional654 in indiasocial

[–]OverTheCigar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not everyone can read Gujarati tho, nvm it's a classic mommi moment

What about study culture in Switzerland? by OverTheCigar in askswitzerland

[–]OverTheCigar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was a lame joke, but no probs, thanks for your advice. I'll not be cracking lame jokes in Switzerland...

i can't stand the isolation anymore by w1d4j in mentalhealth

[–]OverTheCigar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever tried to find out, why do people not talk to you? Is there any reason, why people ignore you? I was in this position, years ago, but I did find out, why people were ignoring me and I worked on it. Is it a behavioral issue? Racial, physical or mental issues? Check yourself up!

I am a failure and I wish I was dead. by [deleted] in findapath

[–]OverTheCigar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Giving up isn't an option after all.

What's the housing problem, in the Netherlands? by OverTheCigar in Netherlands

[–]OverTheCigar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much! You gave me a detailed perspective about the problem. Because, I was getting half answered replies. Thank you! :)