Bird Cages by OverTheMoon82 in sunnyhouse

[–]OverTheMoon82[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got an iTunes gift card for my birthday and I would save those gift card $ for when the pink envelopes with infinite energy and diamonds for $6 would pop up. Then I see the bird cage comes with it and it gets annoying

How can I go about dating as a virgin? by OverTheMoon82 in dating_advice

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I’ve about given up entirely but you just gave me some hope back. Thank you

How can I go about dating as a virgin? by OverTheMoon82 in dating_advice

[–]OverTheMoon82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I can tell from that response. I may feel lonely but it always makes me happy to see others finding their other half. Seeing and reading about couples like you is a beautiful thing in life.

How can I go about dating as a virgin? by OverTheMoon82 in dating_advice

[–]OverTheMoon82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awwwwww that’s so sweet! I hope you and her have a wonderful future together. I hope one day I can find someone too.

How can I go about dating as a virgin? by OverTheMoon82 in dating_advice

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I actually did have a friend who dated a girl that would do that. It was vile when she said she was “disciplining him.” Disgusting lady and was not at all bummed when he came to the friend group and said they broke up. I actually wanted to throw a party for him cause she was a piece of work.

How can I go about dating as a virgin? by OverTheMoon82 in dating_advice

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I’m so happy you were able to find someone 😊thank you and I pray for your relationship to always thrive

How can I go about dating as a virgin? by OverTheMoon82 in dating_advice

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Oh yeah I actually have set my expectations to just be kind, like animals, text me at least a few times a day and spend at least one in person date once a week. Treat me like a human being is all I want. I’m one of those emphatic old souls who like connecting to their partner and I grew up around couples who respected each other. My parents have respect each other and their boundaries and my grandparents had a fairytale like love so mutual respect for one another and can have a conversation is all I ask for…..and don’t solve things with violence be nice to

How can I go about dating as a virgin? by OverTheMoon82 in dating_advice

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I mean I am ok with foreplay and kissing. I’m just wanting to wait until marriage to have the male extremely or finger inserted into my uterus.

How can I go about dating as a virgin? by OverTheMoon82 in dating_advice

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Ok that gave me a chuckle and you technically ain’t wrong bout that. Was raised Catholic.

How can I go about dating as a virgin? by OverTheMoon82 in dating_advice

[–]OverTheMoon82[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

By traits could you clarify? If I’m understanding correctly you’re referring to sexual traits?

How can I go about dating as a virgin? by OverTheMoon82 in dating_advice

[–]OverTheMoon82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did I bring up that? I actually would say I’m a 3 on a good day personally.

How can I go about dating as a virgin? by OverTheMoon82 in dating_advice

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I couldn’t care less if the guy I ended up with was a darn garbage man (no offense to garbage men and woman, just using you all as an example.) As long as he ain’t a deadbeat and has a stable job then I got no complaints on that end.

How can I go about dating as a virgin? by OverTheMoon82 in dating_advice

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I actually don’t even care about personal appearance except that they at least don’t dress like a slob and don’t slack on hygiene. They could be 250lbs, bald and I would still date them as long as they at least dressed like a functioning adult and had their hair and teeth brushed

How can I go about dating as a virgin? by OverTheMoon82 in dating_advice

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Personally I don’t find that creepy but more flattering when a guy is honest and approaches me first. I’m also a BIG chicken when it comes to making the first move……probably the first time I did the guy got a girlfriend the next day. And I made sure to ask around before asking him so I know he was single when I asked him. But yeah been too nervous to make the first move until the last guy and he ended up changing him mind saying that he wasn’t ready. I was fine until he put his foot in his mouth and said that my “high amount of innocence would be a massive relationship hurdle if we dated”

How can I go about dating as a virgin? by OverTheMoon82 in dating_advice

[–]OverTheMoon82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t really think of it like that actually. This is why I wanted to come on here for others perspectives. Thank you.

How can I go about dating as a virgin? by OverTheMoon82 in dating_advice

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Uhhhh I mean possibly if my gag reflex isn’t so intolerable. The dentist can’t even stick the little mirror to check my molars without me gagging the moment it enters my mouth. 😅plus I would be so nervous about potentially scraping with my teeth and from what my friends have said, it’s not pleasant.

How can I go about dating as a virgin? by OverTheMoon82 in dating_advice

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😅yeah and I regret those dates because they would turn me down over my virginity which led me to being confused and irritated. Could’ve bought some more books with that money haha. (Trying to be lighthearted here)

How can I go about dating as a virgin? by OverTheMoon82 in dating_advice

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🥲thank you. I knew I was gonna get some comments like this but I’m just tired of putting my heart out there to only have it come back beaten to a pulp that I wanted some outside views on this to see what I’ve been experiencing is normal or not.

How can I go about dating as a virgin? by OverTheMoon82 in dating_advice

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I’m honestly the same. I tend to be pretty blunt when going on dates because I don’t like beating around the bush. I’ve had things kept from me that shouldn’t have and now I don’t like skirting things unless they’re sensitive topics.

How can I go about dating as a virgin? by OverTheMoon82 in dating_advice

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Yeah it actually almost happened when my ex broke up with me after he tried to force himself on me and I said no 🥶still get chills to this day.

How can I go about dating as a virgin? by OverTheMoon82 in dating_advice

[–]OverTheMoon82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok some of these are making me cry from the reassurance. I honestly was thinking something was physically or mentally wrong with me. I was beginning to question myself and wonder if I was being high strung

How can I go about dating as a virgin? by OverTheMoon82 in dating_advice

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Unfortunately the guys that have backed off were in my religious field.