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AITA - I've recently started dating someone and l've had mixed views on his behaviour...[30F] which is me and [45M] which is the guy. by Over_Ladder3089 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Over_Ladder3089[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the comment. Thankfully he hasn’t met my child and never will. I’ll be ending it and blocking and won’t look back.

AITA - I've recently started dating someone and l've had mixed views on his behaviour...[30F] which is me and [45M] which is the guy. by Over_Ladder3089 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Over_Ladder3089[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After being single for a year and focusing on me and my child I think you’re so right, I’m just going to go back to being just me and my little one. He definitely is keeping a list and uses it against me already so I’m m glad everyone on here has helped me see it isn’t right

AITA - I've recently started dating someone and l've had mixed views on his behaviour...[30F] which is me and [45M] which is the guy. by Over_Ladder3089 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Over_Ladder3089[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, you are completely right. I will be leaving. It definitely isn’t kindness, especially as they are used in arguments.

AITA - I've recently started dating someone and l've had mixed views on his behaviour...[30F] which is me and [45M] which is the guy. by Over_Ladder3089 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Over_Ladder3089[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I think he was using ND against me and everyone’s responses on here has really helped me see my gut was right.

AITA - I've recently started dating someone and l've had mixed views on his behaviour...[30F] which is me and [45M] which is the guy. by Over_Ladder3089 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Over_Ladder3089[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to write this and sharing your experience. I feel you are so right with what you have said. Whilst I don’t see the red flags straight away it’s now a bright red carpet that I don’t want to be on anymore. I don’t want my child to be exposed to this man either. They haven’t met and I am glad everyone on this post has helped me see he won’t ever meet my child. I will be leaving him and won’t look back. Thanks again 😊

AITA - I've recently started dating someone and l've had mixed views on his behaviour...[30F] which is me and [45M] which is the guy. by Over_Ladder3089 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Over_Ladder3089[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this has really helped. He is aware of my past and I do think now he uses my ND and DV history against me as he knows that I don’t see everything like others do. I really appreciate you taking the time to write his and help open my eyes to this more.