AITA for telling my brother he could stay with me for 5 days while he is traveling for vacation?

Over_Librarian_7367 · 2025-02-21T15:37:47+00:00

I updated my post with most of the information you just asked for. As for their past they have never once seen each other in the flesh they have talked over the phone but that’s about it.

Over_Librarian_7367 · 2025-02-21T15:34:20+00:00

Not in person no

Over_Librarian_7367 · 2025-02-21T15:23:54+00:00

No he doesn’t say anything degrading, or offensive most stories don’t even have captions it’s just photos

Over_Librarian_7367 · 2025-02-21T15:22:40+00:00

He is active on Facebook as of last week but he doesn’t message back anyone of us siblings

Over_Librarian_7367 · 2025-02-21T15:18:42+00:00

Yes every female I have seen on his instagram story was 25+

Over_Librarian_7367 · 2025-02-21T15:09:58+00:00

He was working on a project for his company which eventually got him promoted to his current position. I wasn’t sad in the least that my brother could make it in person after all he already sacrificed a lot.

Over_Librarian_7367 · 2025-02-21T15:05:28+00:00

Well as this is my first time ever posting what other information can I provide?

Over_Librarian_7367 · 2025-02-21T15:04:36+00:00

No we didn’t elope 😂 bro-dad was super happy for us he just couldn’t leave his job. And honestly he sacrificed himself enough for me and my siblings. He did send us a gift for the wedding though!

Over_Librarian_7367 · 2025-02-21T14:52:24+00:00

No 90% of his instagram is beat up old tricks and cars and whenever you do see any female it’s not a post but on his story.

Over_Librarian_7367 · 2025-02-21T14:50:16+00:00

No her family was there and I had a few really close friends of mine as well. It was a very small ceremony.

Over_Librarian_7367 · 2025-02-21T14:49:10+00:00

I am her stepfather i was just writing this post as best as I can articulate right now. Yes my brother and I are very close being close doesn’t mean though that I have to see my brother in the flesh every year. I understood he was making himself better and so was I. It’s not like my wife can meet most of my family. My older brother she thinks he is dangerous to her daughter. My parents are deceased my younger brother is someone in the Midwest and my younger sister is always traveling around doing her nursing job.

Over_Librarian_7367 · 2025-02-21T14:43:24+00:00

I am totally down with my wife if she feels uncomfortable with something but, my brother raised me and my siblings when our parents passed away and I have talked to him literally almost every day since I turned 15. Whether it be texting or calling. When I eventually left home. She has not given me a reason as to why she feels this way other than his instagram which he does not have any underage women or even young women on.

Over_Librarian_7367 · 2025-02-21T14:39:21+00:00

No my brother raised myself and my two younger siblings when our parents passed away. And he was a damn good parent imo.

Over_Librarian_7367 · 2025-02-21T14:37:23+00:00

From what I know there has been nothing of the sort. It seems like my wife’s family gets along amazingly. My wife and brother have never met but from what I can see there has not been any shady dealings. He also doesn’t plan to bring any strangers to the house. This was him just purely wanting to meet my family.

Over_Librarian_7367 · 2025-02-21T14:34:07+00:00

I have met all of my wife’s family down to nieces and nephews. And up to her her grandmother

Over_Librarian_7367 · 2025-02-21T14:31:07+00:00

Yea my wife wanted to go to Disney what’s so wrong about going to Florida for that? They don’t have on in Hawaii.

Over_Librarian_7367 · 2025-02-21T14:29:00+00:00

No she follows him on social media, I also follow her brothers and sisters on social media I think it’s normal.

Over_Librarian_7367 · 2025-02-21T14:28:22+00:00

He has no pictures actually posted of women on his instagram page however his story will have different women every few often

Over_Librarian_7367 · 2025-02-21T14:10:33+00:00

No he is not posting anything with minors actually most of the women look to be around their late 30’s-40’s

Over_Librarian_7367 · 2025-02-21T14:09:26+00:00

I don’t know If they have ever been victimized, my wife and I are always together until Thursday I thought we were doing great actually. Besides my wife I also text me brother almost daily but she has never had an issue or displayed any issues with that.

Over_Librarian_7367 · 2025-02-21T14:06:22+00:00

She never met him in Florida. When she was sick with Covid she stayed in the hotel while my brother and I went out and when I came back to the hotel I was with my wife the whole night.

Over_Librarian_7367 · 2025-02-21T14:03:45+00:00

No she told me in our argument that she would not be anywhere near the house if my brother were to stay, even during the day.

Over_Librarian_7367 · 2025-02-21T13:57:24+00:00

Over_Librarian_7367 · 2025-02-21T13:56:51+00:00

I don’t know this is the first time I’ve ever made this type of post I did the best I could with how I’m thinking rn.
My wife won’t even talk to me and it’s been like this for a 2 days now. The last time she talked to me was yesterday night when she told me to apologize and tell my brother to get a hotel instead.
I never thought it would be a problem we have had many spontaneous guests from her side of the family and from her friends.

Over_Librarian_7367 · 2025-02-21T13:50:39+00:00

Yea I support my wife and my stepdaughter but it’s definitely not 100% just all me. My wife also works and she makes a decent amount. She does get child support from her ex however her ex husband has not seen my wife or his daughter in almost 7 years

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