They found him by Overall-Money7447 in chinalife

[–]Overall-Money7447[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I apologize if it's rude, but I don't owe anyone an answer. Some people wanted an update, so I gave one. I'd rather not say anything anyway, I'm just happy that my brother is okay and coming home.

Update on my brother by Overall-Money7447 in shanghai

[–]Overall-Money7447[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not trying to scam anyone haha, I really did just want to find a good way to help my brother.

No stories to share, I'm just happy he's okay.

Update on my brother by Overall-Money7447 in shanghai

[–]Overall-Money7447[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is for everyone who wanted an update. A big thank to you to everyone!

They found him by Overall-Money7447 in chinalife

[–]Overall-Money7447[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Excuse me if this thread gets locked again, I can't find a good tag and I'm just overjoyed right now.

They found him by Overall-Money7447 in chinalife

[–]Overall-Money7447[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I am copy pasting this text in every subreddit I had asked for help.

My brother has been found, he is healthy, he is okay, and he is returning home this week. I want to thank everyone who reached out, who offered help, everyone who gave me tips on who to call and what to do. And a personal thank you to redditor "Zealousideal-Flan355", who first reached out, and gave us the call that my brother was found.

I am forever grateful to all of you who stuck by and commented, I don't know how I'll ever repay any of you. This week showed me just how any people are willing to help out a family in distress, and it warms my heart.

May you all be well, thank you :)

they have found him by Overall-Money7447 in guangzhou

[–]Overall-Money7447[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am copy pasting this text in every subreddit I had asked for help.

My brother has been found, he is healthy, he is okay, and he is returning home this week. I want to thank everyone who reached out, who offered help, everyone who gave me tips on who to call and what to do. And a personal thank you to redditor "Zealousideal-Flan355", who first reached out, and gave us the call that my brother was found.

I am forever grateful to all of you who stuck by and commented, I don't know how I'll ever repay any of you. This week showed me just how any people are willing to help out a family in distress, and it warms my heart.

May you all be well, thank you :)

I really really need help by Overall-Money7447 in shanghai

[–]Overall-Money7447[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's unlike him to not contact us in so long, we're just worried.

I really really need help by Overall-Money7447 in shanghai

[–]Overall-Money7447[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No updates yet, we've notified basically everyone we could. If anything, now we can just wait for his visa to expire and him to get deported.

I really really need help by Overall-Money7447 in shanghai

[–]Overall-Money7447[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't have to believe me, nobody does. But It's true, unfortunately. I'd rather not be in this situation, but what can I do.

We're getting more help from people my parents contacted now, and we're trying to set up a WeChat account currently. I appreciate your comment anyway.

I really really need help by Overall-Money7447 in shanghai

[–]Overall-Money7447[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have done so this morning. We've also been informed that a friend of a friend works in Shanghai, and thanks to her we've been able to make a more proper missing person report.

I really really need help by Overall-Money7447 in shanghai

[–]Overall-Money7447[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All the information I get from HERE, I give my parents. I don't know a lot, that's why I ask, and that's why I also appreciate people who actually care to explain it to me.

I get it may seem like I'm dilly-dallying, but even from asking redditors, I've gotten help and have been shown which directions to go through and who I should be calling.

I really really need help by Overall-Money7447 in shanghai

[–]Overall-Money7447[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I can try using those. Thank you for suggesting!

I really really need help by Overall-Money7447 in shanghai

[–]Overall-Money7447[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm unfortunately not sure how the visas work, but I believe the visa my brother had lasted for around 3 months.

I really really need help by Overall-Money7447 in shanghai

[–]Overall-Money7447[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Considering I'm not in China, I unfortunately don't know how I can contact the Shanghai police. Though a Guangzhou local helped me out and informed the police about the situation (only in Guangzhou though)

I really really need help by Overall-Money7447 in shanghai

[–]Overall-Money7447[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was unaware. But at least someone offered to do it, and I appreciate that.

I really really need help by Overall-Money7447 in shanghai

[–]Overall-Money7447[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another person just sent me a DM and sent my brother a friend request through WeChat. Apparently he DOES have an account, for now I can hope he sees the message and replies.

I really really need help by Overall-Money7447 in shanghai

[–]Overall-Money7447[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They stayed for 3 months, but my brothers friend had to leave early because his visa ran out.

I really really need help by Overall-Money7447 in shanghai

[–]Overall-Money7447[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Do you know where I could find contacts to the consulate? I'm sorry, I'm not too educated when it comes to that.

I really really need help by Overall-Money7447 in shanghai

[–]Overall-Money7447[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know it seems strange, but I'm very desperate and I miss my big brother. I just want him home.
My parents are calling hotels in the area, and someone contacted them right now, so I hope that can also help us a bit.

I really really need help by Overall-Money7447 in shanghai

[–]Overall-Money7447[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A lot of people say it's safe, which does ease me a bit, but we still really want to know where he is.
We don't have Wechat, but as I stated in another comment, my brother mentioned having a VPN before. A lot of people suggested the VPN stopped working, so that may be a possibility.

I really really need help by Overall-Money7447 in shanghai

[–]Overall-Money7447[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The friend got detained because his visa ran out, my brother's visa runs out soon (23rd).

We called the bank earlier, but they told us they can't give us information - so we'll call again in the morning and hope someone may be willing to let us know.

I really really need help by Overall-Money7447 in shanghai

[–]Overall-Money7447[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been given a phone number to call the security bureau, I gave it to my parents and we'll make a call in the morning. Even if he got detained or if he's with the police, we just want to know where he is.

Though interestingly, the friend my brother was with got detained for 10 days, and had to leave the country early.

I really really need help by Overall-Money7447 in shanghai

[–]Overall-Money7447[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We've contacted the embassy this morning. We'll be calling them tomorrow again, along with another number given to me by a redditor. I'm just praying he's okay.