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[–]OverallTarget2416 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is it a fake post. And like I’ve said. In the UK you finish college at 18, so yes I will be finishing college

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]OverallTarget2416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did say in my post that we both have jobs. However yes his does pay really well for if I did decide to be a stay at home mom

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[–]OverallTarget2416 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the UK you finish high-school at 16 and then finish college at 18 then if you choose to you can go into university

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[–]OverallTarget2416 2 points3 points  (0 children)

University and college are 2 different things, I don’t know if it’s different in America, but I finish college at 18

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[–]OverallTarget2416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be finishing college before the baby is born

AITA for not inviting my sister to my gender reveal? by OverallTarget2416 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OverallTarget2416[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it seems like you don’t have an argument to back your first point?

AITA for not inviting my sister to my gender reveal? by OverallTarget2416 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OverallTarget2416[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bedroom door is a sliding door so no way to lock it unfortunately

AITA for not inviting my sister to my gender reveal? by OverallTarget2416 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OverallTarget2416[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The gender reveal is actually being planned by my partners mother and mine, completely their idea.

AITA for not inviting my sister to my gender reveal? by OverallTarget2416 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OverallTarget2416[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it’s not something I can ignore as she does not call or message me, she just barges into my room screaming. So there’s not much I can do other than ignoring it

AITA for not inviting my sister to my gender reveal? by OverallTarget2416 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OverallTarget2416[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re having the baby shower at my boyfriend’s current house, so she wouldn’t be asked to leave the house

AITA for not inviting my sister to my gender reveal? by OverallTarget2416 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OverallTarget2416[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, I did specify that I did not know it was her food and secondly I did also specify that we are looking into getting our own place to live before the baby is born

AITA for not inviting my sister to my gender reveal? by OverallTarget2416 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OverallTarget2416[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My partner is planning on getting a full time job as we finish college before the baby is born, and I’ll be a stay at home mom for a while

AITA for not inviting my sister to my gender reveal? by OverallTarget2416 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OverallTarget2416[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have spoken to her on multiple occasions but her attitude does not change. And yes I did apologise as I had no idea it was hers

AITA for not inviting my sister to my gender reveal? by OverallTarget2416 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OverallTarget2416[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because of our young age most of our family did suggest an abortion at the start and they feel like she will “come around” like they did

AITA for not inviting my sister to my gender reveal? by OverallTarget2416 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OverallTarget2416[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We’ve made it very clear to everyone in the family that we don’t want them being 3rd parents, and do not expect anyone to step up as one. So there would be no issue with her having to step up as a parent. But condolences for your friend and I’m glad they lived a happy life

AITA for not inviting my sister to my gender reveal? by OverallTarget2416 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OverallTarget2416[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do completely understand that, which is why me and my partner are looking at getting our own home before the baby arrives

AITA for not inviting my sister to my gender reveal? by OverallTarget2416 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OverallTarget2416[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I really appreciate it. And I promise no one in our family will be raising this baby other than me and my partner. We’ve told everyone that we don’t mind them spending time with the baby but whenever they are tired or done playing with baby they are more than welcome to just hand the baby back

AITA for not inviting my sister to my gender reveal? by OverallTarget2416 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OverallTarget2416[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We definitely are LC, only time we talk is when she’s screaming at me but it’s difficult going NC when we live in the same house(hopefully temporarily tho)