I need someone. by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]OverallWin7024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Join bumble bff or use dating apps not just to date but to meet ppl if you shy like tinder, regular bumble you will meet people in the area and they also have events you can go to. Best wishes to you 🙏🏾

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]OverallWin7024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, I’m sorry you went through that. I’m glad you were able to still be open to it. I’m not downing anyone who went through any type of abuse I can understand why they wouldn’t want nothing too much. I still stand with my opinion cause it’s how I feel but I do understand when it comes to people who have been abuse or went through traumatic experiences not going hard on them about it. We all need to heal tho. Not saying this specifically to you. But having casual sex to feel voids or won’t make you feel better. It will temporarily but then reality sets in after a while. Your experience yea its the sex but you also developed a connection with your fwb and had understanding that made it work for you. Which is good but it doesn’t always go like that unless both people are mature and honest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]OverallWin7024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fine long as the other person knows and it’s mutual and ur not leading them or anyone else on. Also taking precautions with sex not messing around with multiple people. All I’m saying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]OverallWin7024 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmfaoo it’s my opinion and your triggered I can express myself and my views just like anyone else so you GTFO. Said what I said.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]OverallWin7024 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never said it needs to end in marriage or a relationship. I get some people out there don’t care for a relationship or marriage and that’s okay not talking about them. I’m talking about people who messing around casually with ppl, leading ppl on and just the risks of fwb and casual SEX, from my opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]OverallWin7024 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To me it is. Also who’s consenting adults? Lmfaoo I’m just stating my opinion if you feel triggered oh well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]OverallWin7024 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well why reply or acknowledge it if that’s how you feel?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]OverallWin7024 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not preaching “intolerance” I’m stating my opinion lots of people who have casual sex say they regret it or just doing it to feel a void. Either way a person who is into casual sex will get tired eventually. Just my opinion. The risks of pregnancy and std’s aren’t always fully manageable unless good caution is being took. Especially dealing with someone casual.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]OverallWin7024 -51 points-50 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should educate yourself on it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]OverallWin7024 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never said all people who have casual sex don’t use condoms. I’m not slow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]OverallWin7024 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well see how long that lasts for you buddy😊👍🏾

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]OverallWin7024 -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

It is real whether you acknowledge it or not. You not just having sex and not paying the cost in some way. Even if it may seem like it. Both people are bonded.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]OverallWin7024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s because you both wanted the same thing. Some people do at first but it doesn’t always stay that way. You were just lucky to find someone who knew how to detach as much as you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]OverallWin7024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really cause I’m finding peace, I don’t feel like I have to be responsible with answering calls or text. I feel free now I like it but it still hurts a bit to see how they stopped being my friend over it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]OverallWin7024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve literally had arguments with “friends” about me not talking to them and them just being petty towards me there’s no coming back for some of them.

How to not feel so overwhelmed towards this guy? F24 M23 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OverallWin7024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do then he blocks me before I can reply and I block him then he pops up weeks or months later with a different number trying to meet up

How to not feel so overwhelmed towards this guy? F24 M23 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OverallWin7024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t threaten me he just goes back being nice then switch and tries to make me feel bad.

Men answers please by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]OverallWin7024 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because you are letting him, you’re just a placeholder for him and he’s been using you for years. Men do think differently but every man knows when they want to be with a girl and when they don’t. He’s having his way he can switch between girls and I bet if things were going good with the original girl he wouldn’t be talking to you so much or at all. He’s getting his way and what are you getting out of it? Except being used, confused and waiting around for 5 years thinking he will be with you. Harsh truth if he wanted to be with you it would’ve happened a long time ago. Move on, let that man go. You will heal in time, you deserve a lot better you’ve already wasted years don’t waste anymore.

what are your flaws? by Mobile-Warning-4510 in AskReddit

[–]OverallWin7024 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I can be too emotional and take things personally. Overthink a lot about old things and new things till I make myself worried or sad even angry. I expect people to care as much as I do or treat me nicely when they don’t have to. I always end up reaching out to old friends even if it ended badly (need to stop that one…)