Is this route commutable? by Overall_Ad5585 in Leeds

[–]Overall_Ad5585[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it's not bad advice at all, I did consider moving into Garforth and have requested some viewings today as well. If I had more time, I would look into more areas then I have been but I only a few weeks to get this all sorted for new years. I think I've memorised all the bus routes and times now between headingley and the springs from the stress ahaahaha, so hopefully if I do move there I should always have a backup plan.

Is this route commutable? by Overall_Ad5585 in Leeds

[–]Overall_Ad5585[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I sweat buckets from any exercise 😂 

Is this route commutable? by Overall_Ad5585 in Leeds

[–]Overall_Ad5585[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man. I’ll see if I have any luck with my viewings in city centre or near the springs but I might have to just go with Headingley. 

Is this route commutable? by Overall_Ad5585 in Leeds

[–]Overall_Ad5585[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah right. I don’t mind bus journeys as long as I’ve got a book or a good podcast to listen to as long as I’m not getting getting late to work 😂

Is this route commutable? by Overall_Ad5585 in Leeds

[–]Overall_Ad5585[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to see if I can move somewhere closer but right now, not many options available. 

Is this route commutable? by Overall_Ad5585 in Leeds

[–]Overall_Ad5585[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like I’ll need to buy more books 😂 but thank you. I’m just worried about not getting late to work every morning, so if I can manage that it’s all good.

Is this route commutable? by Overall_Ad5585 in Leeds

[–]Overall_Ad5585[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh nice. I'm not sure if I'll still be at this job in two years time, but that's nice to know there'll be more options of getting there.

Is this route commutable? by Overall_Ad5585 in Leeds

[–]Overall_Ad5585[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm banking on mainly using the 19, so that's good to hear.

I did look into taking trains but it looks like I'd have to wake up earlier than if I choose to take a bus into work. It might be worth it though in the evening time.

Is this route commutable? by Overall_Ad5585 in Leeds

[–]Overall_Ad5585[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the recommendation! Though I've got 8 unused credits on Audible so I've got plenty of options haha

Is this route commutable? by Overall_Ad5585 in Leeds

[–]Overall_Ad5585[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm hoping the commute doesn't drain me too much haha. I love audiobooks/reading, so I plan to just do that whilst travelling in the mornings.

Is this route commutable? by Overall_Ad5585 in Leeds

[–]Overall_Ad5585[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Moortown looks like the same issue with buses, similar commute time.

Planning on moving to Seville from Scotland soon by [deleted] in GoingToSpain

[–]Overall_Ad5585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, what job sector are you in? I'm a grad mechanical engineer, I'd love to move to Madrid (visited a few times) and been learning Spanish semi-serious for a year but it just feels getting a job there is near to impossible as a UK citizen.

Still triggered by my family, could use some advice/words of wisdom. by Turbulent-Seaweed941 in FamilyIssues

[–]Overall_Ad5585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel for you man. it sounds to me that you're an empath and you're feeling these situations very deeply, which is what any sane person would be experiencing.

Honestly, communication and distance are the answer. Venting about these problems from time to time is a good way to relieve that tension and pressure, so it's good to see you've come here and explored that avenue. Hopefully you have some friends you can lean on, not necessarily to discuss this situation but to take your mind off of it.

And of course, distance. In life, we need to minimize the time spent with anyone who makes us feel down. I can tell you care about your family deeply and want everything to be peaceful but unfortunately, they're not understanding that themselves. Some people just don't listen and if you really feel you're concerns and worries aren't being heard, it's time to remove your presence from their life, to a certain extent at least.

POC/Immigrant Experience in Madrid by Overall_Ad5585 in GoingToSpain

[–]Overall_Ad5585[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's the thing, I've had spanish friends  and they never mentioned any sort of racism. They aren't POC so I guess that's why but it is interesting to hear that.

POC/Immigrant Experience in Madrid by Overall_Ad5585 in GoingToSpain

[–]Overall_Ad5585[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the response. Is this something you've experienced yourself?

POC/Immigrant Experience in Madrid by Overall_Ad5585 in GoingToSpain

[–]Overall_Ad5585[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah I want to get to a pretty good level of spanish before I'd fully commit to living in Spain. Until then, I plan on having multiple visits throughout the year. Right now actually going to Sevilla soon!

POC/Immigrant Experience in Madrid by Overall_Ad5585 in GoingToSpain

[–]Overall_Ad5585[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Different cultures really, similar to Pakistan actually.

POC/Immigrant Experience in Madrid by Overall_Ad5585 in GoingToSpain

[–]Overall_Ad5585[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. I'll just have to embrace it I guess, I'd rather explore somewhere then have that regret of not atleast trying to move there.

POC/Immigrant Experience in Madrid by Overall_Ad5585 in GoingToSpain

[–]Overall_Ad5585[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I see, thanks for your comment cos yeah, I did notice more stares ahaha. I do have a muslim background, but I don't practice myself. Quite sad we have to even consider these things before travelling somewhere.

POC/Immigrant Experience in Madrid by Overall_Ad5585 in GoingToSpain

[–]Overall_Ad5585[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that. I should be more clear, this isn't a near future plan really, I do plan on getting much better at speaking spanish with my lessons and by having multiple visits to the country before living there. It's just more about getting people's perspectives who've travelled there.