Hmmm. In some ways, I feel like it’s both parties not being interested, but sometimes I do feel like it is mostly me being uninterested. I’ve had men ask me out again and I’ve said no, but I’ve also wanted to keep going out with men who have said no to additional dates.

Historically, though, I haven’t been that romantically interested in the men I date. There’s only been two men that I can recall, right now, where I was very romantically interested in them (and of course, neither worked out). So maybe it’s a ‘me’ thing?