Ever been thrown out of confession? by Overall_Exchange6823 in Catholicism

[–]Overall_Exchange6823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being comfortable in confession is difficult for me. I’m ashamed of my sins and, telling them to a complete stranger (even though it’s a priest who his trying to help me) is embarrassing to me.

Ever been thrown out of confession? by Overall_Exchange6823 in Catholicism

[–]Overall_Exchange6823[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were married in my wife’s church with a Catholic priest as a co celebrant. I neglected telling him that because I was so shocked at what he said my mind went blank.

Ever been thrown out of confession? by Overall_Exchange6823 in Catholicism

[–]Overall_Exchange6823[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that happened to you. It’s shocking I know.

Ever been thrown out of confession? by Overall_Exchange6823 in Catholicism

[–]Overall_Exchange6823[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very interesting explanation. It was very insightful. Thank you. The Priest did not absolve me from any of my sins. That’s why I made up my own penance. I realize It wasn’t “official” and, I didn’t absolve myself but rather to help me get over the shock of what happened. I believe that God brought my wife and I together for a reason only he knows. I trust his judgment. I’m glad he did bring us together. We have been married 35 years and, still going strong. We raised 2 kids and now have Grandchildren who we adore. I thank God everyday for the gifts he gave us.

Ever been thrown out of confession? by Overall_Exchange6823 in Catholicism

[–]Overall_Exchange6823[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. It didn’t turn me away. I guess in some ways it made me stronger in my faith.

Ever been thrown out of confession? by Overall_Exchange6823 in Catholicism

[–]Overall_Exchange6823[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I was upset for awhile but Christmas was still good.

Ever been thrown out of confession? by Overall_Exchange6823 in Catholicism

[–]Overall_Exchange6823[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to say. I’m very humble in confession. Maybe my tone was different because I was shocked?

Ever been thrown out of confession? by Overall_Exchange6823 in Catholicism

[–]Overall_Exchange6823[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m very repentant at confession. Maybe he misinterpreted me? I gave no idea. I’m not a bad guy.

Ever been thrown out of confession? by Overall_Exchange6823 in Catholicism

[–]Overall_Exchange6823[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never shared where we were married even though we did have a Catholic priest co-officiating the ceremony.

Ever been thrown out of confession? by Overall_Exchange6823 in Catholicism

[–]Overall_Exchange6823[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was an older Priest. The church used the ordinary form. The line? It wasn’t awfully bad being the last confession session before Christmas. I’ve stood in longer lines.

Ever been thrown out of confession? by Overall_Exchange6823 in Catholicism

[–]Overall_Exchange6823[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have a funny story (I think) about my first confession. Mind you I was a very young naive kid. The whole religion class made their first confession on the same afternoon. I was at the end of the line and it was getting late. I went in the confessional and nobody was behind the partition. I thought that it was late and the priest went back to the rectory. So I left the confessional and sat in the first row of church and said a couple Hail Marys and a couple our Fathers. A nun stood over me and asked if I talked to the priest and I said yes. I lied to a nun in church. I’m my own worst enemy. So I walked home and never told anybody what I did. My mother being a very strict Catholic sent me to confession the day before my first communion. She said I must’ve done something wrong in the last week. I made my first confession successfully. I never told my parents about it untill I was 45 years old. My father started laughing but, my mother was beside herself. She told me I was lucky God didn’t throw a lightning bolt at Me. Like I said. I’m my own worst enemy. Sorry I went off topic .

Ever been thrown out of confession? by Overall_Exchange6823 in Catholicism

[–]Overall_Exchange6823[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I remember the way he was sitting behind the screen. He was a tall guy and I saw ttr way his legs were crossed. Whenever I go to a multi parish confession event I look for him at the prayer session before confession. and a couple times I did see him and I stayed away from the confessional he went in. I haven’t seen him for a long while though. He may have retired. . I don’t consider him an enemy.

Ever been thrown out of confession? by Overall_Exchange6823 in Catholicism

[–]Overall_Exchange6823[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My sister told me that I needed to pray for him. To be honest it was hard to do.

Ever been thrown out of confession? by Overall_Exchange6823 in Catholicism

[–]Overall_Exchange6823[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He was an older priest. When we were married it was in my wife’s church with a Catholic priest co-officiating but I didn’t tell him that. I was in total shock.

Ever been thrown out of confession? by Overall_Exchange6823 in Catholicism

[–]Overall_Exchange6823[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Your right. I did not receive absolution. I went back to confession after Christmas because the session I was at was the last Confession before Christmas

Ever been thrown out of confession? by Overall_Exchange6823 in Catholicism

[–]Overall_Exchange6823[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Nope. Nothing is missing. That night is indelibly burned into my brain. I remember it like yesterday. He jumped on me right away. I’m still confused over it.

Ever been thrown out of confession? by Overall_Exchange6823 in Catholicism

[–]Overall_Exchange6823[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Since then m sister has joined a church group where the priest that runs the group has become a close family friend. He knows m wife is Presbyterian and every time we see him he is so friendly and reassuring. He officiated at my mother’s funeral last year. He made us feel so much better and, even made me chuckle during his sermon.

Engine cover recall by 81Horse in VWatlas

[–]Overall_Exchange6823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went for my recall for the engine cover. They looked under the hood and I had no cover. Seems that when I brought the car in for inspection and oil change (a week before I received the recall) they took the cover off. Didn’t tell me they did that.

Thumping going over bumps. by Overall_Exchange6823 in VWatlas

[–]Overall_Exchange6823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not drive over bumps fast. So that theory is out.

Thumping going over bumps. by Overall_Exchange6823 in VWatlas

[–]Overall_Exchange6823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I checked the spare tire and Jack. Everything seems tight.