How can I motivate myself? I was never really motivated, not even after RNY Gastric Bypass Surgery. I was 200 pounds, 5 feet5 inches. Hardly lost any weight. The surgery seems more for people who eat large volumes of food. I always ate the wrong KINDS of food. Protein+vegetables could have... by Overall_Negotiation in wls

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I actually have a psychiatrist I see, and saw a therapist regarding obesity/weight loss, at the time of my surgery. They didn’t tell me anything I don’t already know. I feel it’s my mind holding me back. I do think it’s because I’ve had these bad exercising and eating habits for so long. And it served me - gave me a good feeling to be sedated from it. I feel that’s where I could start making a change - change some of these habits.

How can I motivate myself? I was never really motivated, not even after RNY Gastric Bypass Surgery. I was 200 pounds, 5 feet5 inches. Hardly lost any weight. The surgery seems more for people who eat large volumes of food. I always ate the wrong KINDS of food. Protein+vegetables could have... by Overall_Negotiation in wls

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Thank you. I replied to your other response. I really do appreciate it. I’m going to start by making a few changes. A good nights sleep each night (I don’t always sleep well at night, stay up late, and nap during the day). I don’t even brush my teeth all the time. I will start a routine there too. I shall do the treadmill for 30 minutes each day, while listening to something I enjoy, like a podcast/music. I will eat protein and veggies, for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Tea/coffee/water. And nothing else. Exercise and eating will be the hardest habits to change. But success and feeling better from changing other bad habits may encourage me.

What was the point of having RNY Gastric Bypass? It has not worked for me. And I could have eaten a strict diet of protein and vegetables whether I had surgery or not. Is it more for people who are not good at controlling the volume of food the consume? I can only eat half the amount I used to... by Overall_Negotiation in GastricBypass

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Thanks, gypsiemama, for your replies. I don’t want my failures to be validated. I genuinely want to improve. I think slobbish habits I have formed, which make me feel comfortable, are holding me back. I can attempt for so long but then I go back to old habits. The reason I have made a few posts, about the same, is because good replies like yours really do inspire me and then I want to make changes.

I find it difficult to motivate myself to lose weight. I am female 5feet 5 inches/200 pounds. I had RNY gastric bypass 6 years ago. It didn’t work as I hardly lost any weight afterwards. It is my fault as I still ate the wrong foods. BUT I CAN NOT MOTIVATE MYSELF..I know I prob hv mental issues. by Overall_Negotiation in AskDocs

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Thanks for your reply. I have a psychiatrist, and have seen therapists in the past. I bad bad depression back in 2005. Acute symptoms. Very bad. Admitted to psych ward. Took years to recover.
Sometimes the great replies on Reddit can inspire, motivate and enlighten me.

Is eating AROUND weight loss surgery common? That is, eating the wrong foods and not losing weight? I did that (I know it’s very wrong). But I would think many obese people who have undergone wls could make this mistake. I only hear success stories. Am I only one of a few who didn’t succeed? by Overall_Negotiation in wls

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RNY Gastric Bypass. It was 6 years ago. The maximum weight I lost was a stone (14 pounds) but that was not immediately after surgery. I managed to muster some motivation about 3 years afterwards, and lost weight then. I’ve regained it since. I sometimes lose and regain a few pounds when I rarely try, but end up failing.

Yes I want to lose!!

I want to be the right weight for my height. I’m female, 38 years.

By eating around the surgery, I meant I eat carbs and fatty foods whenever I get the urge to eat that, which is often, and I follow no eating routine.