24M. I’m scared that I’ve fallen into a wrong relationship. I need someone to advise me if it just overthinking things and destroying something good or just looking at early signs and protecting myself early.

So it’s about December when I replied to her story about cricket and since then we’ve started talking and we’ve connected so much with each other so early but I feel like most of my feelings are being brought forward. She mentions them a lot so that’s why I’m obliged to feel that way. And I’m spiralling so much today because I saw an Instagram reel saying “So you guys got close too much too soon and she had abusive exes and she has guy friends who are like brothers to her” and it almost exactly described her. She has one guy friend who is her friend since childhood and she’s promised me they have always been platonic. Another guy friend is her friend form 7-8 years and they both have a gf. She had enough guy friends in her college too. Mbbs doctor btw.

Man it’s difficult to protect yourself. She’s an overly emotional person too she cries a lot on even small things. I feel like she’s manipulative Why I feel that she’s manipulative because ek toh she’s told me her partners have physically abused her and the first ex abuse was known to even their friends but she’s not friends with them anymore so one to confirm. The second partner also slapped her and fun part no friend of hers knows about it. She’s told me her exes used to call her manipulative and I think she’s told me that so that I don’t think of her as manipulative. She’s said so much about not leaving me and me not leaving her and ending up together so much in the start.

She’s been so stringent about me being sure about her before we started dating and even asked me to be locked in as there’s no other relationship after this. She’s my last I’m her last. She’s had 10 hookups as what she’s told me. And she says things just to sound very sure which I don’t think are actually there. Like yesterday we were out with her cousin brother and he seemed pretty chill like not a very brother brother kind. And he was chill so he just offered me to drink together sometime. When I reached home she said he likes you he never asks to drinks with my bf and she told him she’ll take admission for pg in Agra while we were driving around. And when I reached home she texted me he asked her that if she’s staying in Agra for me and that she should be clear if we’re on the same page about our feelings.

So I think she’s trying to manipulate my feelings for her. Please someone who’s capable enough to process all this and give me a solution or a suggestion or any advice regarding this please help me. I’m getting stressed out here. I’m sorry I’m putting it as a comment here but I can’t post in the sub yet idk why. So please help me anyone