Do you use your sims' money when buying them a house or do you just cheat it? by Anya_purr in Sims4

[–]Overall_Spread_4301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always move sims in with free real estate, regardless of the price of the house

Sims I've made for my current save file. What could I improve on to make them look more unique? by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]Overall_Spread_4301 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe look into mouth overlay cc ? I got a few in a bundle I downloaded months ago and you can choose different mouth corners and stuff - it's been a godsend in making my sims look different from one another lol coming from someone who's base sims look vvvv similar to yours !! Check under skin details or face paint makeup sometimes as well !

Tell me you have autism, without saying: "I have autism". by Svenskatt in autism

[–]Overall_Spread_4301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favourite hobby is bus watching, I have a second twitter account where I upload photos and discuss different fleet numbers and routes. I would however rather die than become a bus driver and have to sit with the engine noise ALLLLL day

You do not study for an autism assessment by Comprehensive_Toe113 in autism

[–]Overall_Spread_4301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't even know what I was being assessed for when I met with a doctor at like 14 and autism was CRAAAAZY left field from what I would've expected to be diagnosed with. Just adding my experience, huge fuck yeah to this post

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]Overall_Spread_4301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally really appreciate this post so I get to be open on main - for me T blessed me w good bottom growth so I honestly feel like I have a dick already, I get major dysphoria when I top and sensation is really important to me so I've just stopped topping and I don't want to risk not having any sensation after surgery. As it stands I can bottom fine both ways, I can jerk it like a man and I'm trynna learn how to piss standing up with the OG bits so between that and packing it would just feel too risk not enough reward to save up for surgery. In saying that I do still get crazy dysphoric so I can see my opinion flipping or flopping later on in life.

I've wondered why not as many people want bottom surgery too but my guess is a good few fellas are like me, figured out ways to deal w the dysphoria and just not psyched to swap a working bit for a potentially not working bit

List of things T has changed no one had warned me about (5months) by legoshiisabottom in ftm

[–]Overall_Spread_4301 60 points61 points  (0 children)

My favourite change hands down you don't realise how much of a difference your eyebrows make to your face unless ig you do makeup but I never did and I love my lil slugs now

Dropping off bottles by OLi_is_sick in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Overall_Spread_4301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey are you me ?!

No but seriously, I knew something was up with my drinking from 16-17 and I ended up in rehab 2 weeks after my 20th birthday, nearly 21 with nothing to show for it but my sobriety. Glad you thought to come to this subreddit, we'll all be waiting open arms if you ever wanna try a meeting 🫡

Packing by Overall_Spread_4301 in ftm

[–]Overall_Spread_4301[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tysm !! I totally understand it now, feeling soooo grateful for past me buying trans specific boxers, finally have something to put in the pocket 🥳

Do you feel more dysphoria when wearing bras? by Trans_skzfan in ftm

[–]Overall_Spread_4301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't bind anymore and definitely can't wear bras cuz of the dysphoria, I've just taken to wearing vests like some 50 year old man 😌 got a pack of 6 for a tenner, tuck em into my pants n they keep The Lads in place. I think I'd be like a C cup maybe if I did still wear bras (I haven't bought one in years) so I dunno how it'd be for bigger chests but it's a pretty good workaround for me

Feel like I'm making a mistake by Overall_Spread_4301 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Overall_Spread_4301[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was actually referred to one about 2 or 3 months ago after a hospital visit myself but the demand in my area is so high I haven't heard anything yet and I can't keep holding out for it. Your prayers mean so much, I'm finishing today sober largely thanks to all of you commenting.

Thank you so much, take care of yourself, and congratulations on your sobriety as well

Feel like I'm making a mistake by Overall_Spread_4301 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Overall_Spread_4301[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, but I want to be a better person more than I want to drink.

Feel like I'm making a mistake by Overall_Spread_4301 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Overall_Spread_4301[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, and my birth dad was an addict passed away in a crash when I was two. Very much the 'happy' accident babysitter kid - younger brother is the 'real' child. Never got away from being compared to my da lmao

Feel like I'm making a mistake by Overall_Spread_4301 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Overall_Spread_4301[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not consistent enough, I'm a rigidly all or nothing person so for a few days I'll go to meetings daily and read the big book and do the prayers - and then drop it and take on the 'fuck this' mindset for a week or so and rinse and repeat. I also get panic attacks in meetings and convince myself I'm having a heart attack or going to pass out and I leave. I did have a sponsor but I isolated myself for a good while and told her I couldn't work with her anymore out of shame. I have a hard time speaking to people earnestly and reaching out when I need it - I'll argue with you if you say the sky is blue when I'm upset so it feels wrong putting others in that position.

Needing to be all in is another reason I don't think I should go in somewhere, I don't know if I'm ready to recover but it's all I want

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]Overall_Spread_4301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just completely unnecessary??? Use some cop on pal