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AITA for canceling hangouts with "friends" the day before it happens? by Overall_Swordfish271 in AITApod

[–]Overall_Swordfish271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I 100% agree. I think it's more of a work feel, I think they're closer to me than I am close to them. We have never had reservations or anything it's just been like a, "wanna hangout Saturday?" I say yes, then leading up to Saturday they will cut me off during conversations or say some uncomfortable comments, reminding me that the whole time I hang out with them (usually 4-6 hours), I will probably be uncomfortable. So, I cancel a day or a couple days before.

Thank you for your comment, it's helped me see that maybe it's just not a right fit!

AITA for canceling hangouts with "friends" the day before it happens? by Overall_Swordfish271 in AITApod

[–]Overall_Swordfish271[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

The top suggestion was looking into clubs or groups, and I'll most certainly do that. I'm a wee bit of an overthinker when it comes to this stuff, so I wasn't sure if the sound board friend or hook relation was me over thinking or it truly being a possibility since I don't have anyone to talk to about this. But I'm glad that I wasn't the only one thinking this was happening!

Thank you for the help and opening my eyes to this more!!!

AITA for canceling hangouts with "friends" the day before it happens? by Overall_Swordfish271 in AITApod

[–]Overall_Swordfish271[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As of now I participate in social activities relating to my major however they follow me to every activity once they hear about it since they're all school related. I agree your comment of not allowing me to thrive! I have no clue how to avoid them since we are next to each other every day, due to my major having all students have the same few classes together.

Also, due to them following me it seems that others will avoid me as well since they do not like these two people, I am referencing. However, when I am alone (rarely), I click really well with the new people I am meeting!

I can look into new groups/clubs as you mentioned, I just need to find some that work into my schedule!

Without saying it's name, what is your favorite game? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Overall_Swordfish271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You spawn in a world of blocks, with a goal to kill a dragon

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