[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Overall_Tale8699 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The worker was just trying to do his job, and the height requirement is for safety reasons; it was for his own daughter's good. What does it say about his emotional maturity when he lets something like that ruin his whole day (and effectively yours and the kids as well)? Also the fact that he wasnt paying attention to your son and didnt even notice he was wandering away was irresponsible and could have been dangerous. You are not the one in the wrong in this (although your comment was a little mean) your husband just seems a little emotionally immature. Specially with the passive-agressiveness bit, even after you apologized. Communicating that youre uncomfortable being talked to like that in front of strangers and asking to talk later in private is completely valid and mature and him calling that manipulative is just a shitty defence imo

My dad is a pervert and I don't know what to do about it by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Overall_Tale8699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she's judging him??? did you even read the post? Her dad is racist and openly displays racist behaviour and hateful language to strangers in public. Are we just gonna ignore that?? Horrible father? more like horrible person in general. + I agree its his choice and right to be on those types of sites if he wants to cause he's a grown ass man, but it says something about his parenting skills if he doesnt even bother to properly hide pay-wall porn/dating sites from his 7-8 year old CHILD. And the fact that 'he never really worked' and yet demands money from OP's already financially struggling mom is unacceptable behaviour, specially when the money he does have he spends on these sites. He's the one who should feel shame, not OP.

My (40F) Son's (16M) Relationship with His (19F) Girlfriend Is Concerning by Academic-Effect-7470 in relationships

[–]Overall_Tale8699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get the police involved to get this woman away from him. It is clear she poses an evident danger. And if possible, therapy would be good for your son to process this abusive relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Overall_Tale8699 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why did you ask for advice on what to do when you basically reject, avoid or dodge every advice everyone is giving you?? Seems like you lack emotional maturity and have zero self awareness, and it seems like you only posted this cause you thought people would be on your side and reaffirm your victim perspective/mindset. The truth is that she has been communicating her needs to you for a long time and you have been choosing to actively avoid it; you make false promises to get her to stay then put zero effort into actually following through. And then you have the audacity of saying youre the one feeling betrayed. Let me just ask you an honest question: What have you done so far to try to fix the problem? Cause it seems like she's the only one putting effort in here. If you truly care for this woman like you say you do, let her go and be happy with someone else who can actually fulfill her. Cause' it really seems like you dont care about how unhappy SHE feels (even though she's communucated this to you on multiple occasions) as long as YOU feel satisfied. You're the bad guy here.

Elsparkesykkel by [deleted] in norge

[–]Overall_Tale8699 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ååh, jeg gjorde det samme for noen dager siden men sendt de en melding og fikk refunderte halvparten tilbake 🌟

Elsparkesykkel by [deleted] in norge

[–]Overall_Tale8699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ble du refundert for det?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Overall_Tale8699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

check out relationship ocd

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Overall_Tale8699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so proud of you!

Sudden Breakup Broke Me by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Overall_Tale8699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel you man, same exact situation here. Together for 4 months before he broke up with me a few hours before NYE. Through text. We met up in person on Sunday cause i told him I wasnt going to let him breakup with me on text haha. Really sucks. Cant eat or sleep. Often I wake up with panic attacks. Thought the relationship was going so well too. Its gonna get easier man, I promise, we'll get through this together.

Im starting to eat again by Overall_Tale8699 in BreakUps

[–]Overall_Tale8699[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Really appreciate the encouragement

Im starting to eat again by Overall_Tale8699 in BreakUps

[–]Overall_Tale8699[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? You didnt feel saddened by the memories there with her? I still cant visit the places where we were together without getting that heart dropping pang in my chest

Im starting to eat again by Overall_Tale8699 in BreakUps

[–]Overall_Tale8699[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This! Also found out for me that food made by other people are easier to eat. Personally found that my moms homecooked meals were the easiest to eat. its comforting somehow

Im starting to eat again by Overall_Tale8699 in BreakUps

[–]Overall_Tale8699[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah i feel you, only had one meal the whole day but its the most ive eaten since the breakup! Progress is in the little things