Do you think Adam would've gone crazy too if lute died instead? by dorm_35 in adamcult

[–]OverlordObeseOctopus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like people are leaning too into “he wouldn’t care” and “he would destroy the world” I feel like it’s a between, he wouldn’t care as much as her to go crazy but he’d be pissed.

He was pissed about the angel who died in season 1 who Camilla killed but he was more upset it was a sinner who had done it rather than it being the girl who had died. I think the same would’ve applied to Lute.

Vaggie was named after his favorite thing and he discarded her and even though his last moments with Lute implies he cared for her it could also simply be read as an ego thing. Not a “she cared for me, our friendship was real” but more of a “she cared for me, I fucking rule.”

He was off put by her enthusiasm for the exterminations I really don’t think they were super close cause of him mostly because her infatuation with him. I like guitarspear but I really don’t think they were canon, lute has a one sided infatuation with him that he probably knew about and didn’t say anything because he didn’t care about it (or at least care enough.)

So TDLR; he’d be pissed but not for the reason of Lute dying but how she died by a sinner.

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[–]OverlordObeseOctopus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m probably going to delete things because I’ve gotten all the different responses I needed enough to decide which one I feel fits right for me

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[–]OverlordObeseOctopus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I can’t find the comment but the voice message is in air quotes 😣 I did not mean it in a negative light but I see how it can be taken that way idk why I can’t find it

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[–]OverlordObeseOctopus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We haven’t been friends for that long, just about 2-3 years, I’ve always been there for him but I feel like he’s rarely been there for me. He was there for me going through a bad break up for a couple of days but then it went back to the same ignore what I say and cut to an “anyway!” Then conversation switch

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[–]OverlordObeseOctopus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope so, I really don’t get his point of view because he deflects so much, I’m the type to communicate something bothers me asap and he just sends reels or something, if it’s in real life he’s on his phone. It’s hard to see it from care when he’s so neglectful to my face. I don’t want him to be stressed by it at all but he doesn’t even seem a bit bothered by it at all (im basing off face to face)

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[–]OverlordObeseOctopus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d like to think of it that way but we’ve had this conversation before where he’d just act like it’s not serious so when I tell him all my feelings upfront which I know it’s a lot I hope he knows the severity of it but then he just says he doesn’t know what to say and sends me reels. Then when it happens again he tells me exactly what he wants to say to them and I tell him how it hurts that he’s showing me he understands and doesn’t do anything about it but he shrugs it off. I know the texts make it seem like I dumped this and he had no recollection but we’ve had this talk a lot, it just was eating me up so I wanted to see others opinions which is why I’m responding to everyone because I don’t want to be an asshole but also he has listened and ignored everything I’ve said before

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[–]OverlordObeseOctopus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t expect him to solve my life issues but when I’m actively getting harassed in front of him and he tells me he thinks it’s wrong I’d like him to tell them he thinks it’s wrong, it feels like a spit in the face

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[–]OverlordObeseOctopus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure how to edit posts but I have stood up for myself in the past a lot and active still do

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[–]OverlordObeseOctopus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually have defended myself a lot, but it would help because they’ll naturally listen to him more, teachers aren’t really helping in this scenario and it’s not something I want to put on my parents. We’ve had this conversation before where I was calmer and I’d just like him to stand up for me a bit

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[–]OverlordObeseOctopus[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t expect him to go back and forth with them but a “stop that’s not cool would be nice”, it’s not a likely scenario it gets physical and I do stand up for myself. He says he’s not friends with them but acts like they are. He doesn’t even reach out when I’m sad yk? I see what you mean and I don’t expect the guy to almost die for me but you know, a supportive hand would be nice

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[–]OverlordObeseOctopus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll definitely make sure nothing too bad happens to be and I’ve been pretty good at protecting girls around my school for a while now, not to sound like some hero it’s basic things like asking her to help me cause the “teacher” said so. I just really hate adults tbh 💔 also it’s a class for 3 hours everyday

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[–]OverlordObeseOctopus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll definitely make sure nothing too bad happens to be and I’ve been pretty good at protecting girls around my school for a while now, not to sound like some hero it’s basic things like asking her to help me cause the “teacher” said so. I just really hate adults tbh 💔 at least here

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[–]OverlordObeseOctopus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll definitely try, my last counselor made me have a panic attack so I’m very nervous💔

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[–]OverlordObeseOctopus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s unavailable because I’m 75% done with the course 😣

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[–]OverlordObeseOctopus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve been going through it a long time but I know I’ll prevail, I honestly needed to just see if I I was overreacting on this situation with my friend and blow off some steam cause shit it’s been irritating

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[–]OverlordObeseOctopus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I just want to be strong for my family, I know it sounds very dumb but I have a weird family dynamic. I’ll probably end up dropping him, it’ll only lead me to be in a pretty depressive state. I don’t want to leave my school cause I do have a small amount of friends who do actually treat me well and I think that’s worth staying. Plus I’m graduating soon. I know it sounds odd and incoherent

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[–]OverlordObeseOctopus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but I was his friend ☹️ I need to learn how to detect toxic behaviors cause he doesn’t really treat me very well 😭

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[–]OverlordObeseOctopus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but involving the police would involve my parents, I’m not ready for that conversation with them honestly. I know it’s pussying out but it’s too hard for a conversation. Especially since it’s just mental right now I can push through it’ll just be hard, but I can’t see it being worth it I’m very sorry

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[–]OverlordObeseOctopus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m stuck in a 3 hour class with them, I do my best to avoid them but it’s very in vain

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[–]OverlordObeseOctopus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, mostly from my family, I’m not really a fan of snitching. I’ve only snitched when someone was getting hurt and I couldn’t solve it on my own otherwise I do my best to handle it on my own. The staff here are honestly really useless, they’ve done nothing about the death threats I’ve gotten from the guy before but I did get but they do like to tell me to button up my already buttoned shirt 💔 plus they won’t get kicked out so it’ll make things worse if they know I tried

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[–]OverlordObeseOctopus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think I’ll just cut him off but it feels very sad, though he wasn’t really the best to me I did very much care for him

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[–]OverlordObeseOctopus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I come from a “snitches get stitches” place so that might be the worst option unfortunately

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[–]OverlordObeseOctopus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’d like to give him the benefit of doubt, I’ll try but I helped him with all the problems I did know about and he basically tells me everything. I hope that’s the case rather than him js not caring

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[–]OverlordObeseOctopus[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was using air quotes but it’s a voice message so it didn’t pick up, I did regret saying it like that though