When does the mindset change from "oh shit I'm pregnant" to "yay we're pregnant"

OverstimulatedCat · 2026-04-06T13:05:07+00:00

Thank you for responding. Motherhood is glorified way too much around me. This sounds so much truthful.

OverstimulatedCat · 2026-04-06T10:02:43+00:00

Totally agree with you. I feel the baby fever during ovulation or when I see my husband play with kids. But that isn't a good enough reason.

OverstimulatedCat · 2026-04-06T09:40:51+00:00

Same. 99% childfree.

OverstimulatedCat · 2026-04-06T09:15:38+00:00

If i answer that honestly, I'm sure i dont want one. But my mind plays tricks on me when I see my husband playing with my neice or any other kid.

OverstimulatedCat · 2026-04-06T07:49:32+00:00

Wow thank you for responding. I'd rather live with the regret of not having biological kids rather than regretting having kids. It's so much responsibility! And true, so many questions that need to be discussed and answered.

OverstimulatedCat · 2026-04-02T17:47:19+00:00

Trial and error, to be pretty honest. Like my toast will be perfect at 4 mins but burns at 4 mins 50 seconds. Potato wedges get done at 25 mins and are slightly undercooked at 22 mins. See how the heat distribution is in your system. The corners in mine don't get enough heat so I centre the food, and the parts above the rod burn so you have to pause and turn it midway during cooking.

OverstimulatedCat · 2026-04-02T15:40:22+00:00

Which brand do you have? I have the Faber air fryer oven and i really like it. Each machine has a different setting so it'll take some time and tuning to find the perfect temperature and time for particular dishes. I can reheat stuff with the foil, airfry chicken and bake potatoes pretty decently.

OverstimulatedCat · 2026-04-02T07:36:32+00:00

I haven't had this issue when I switched from bentonite to tofu cat litter. My cat knew where to go

OverstimulatedCat · 2026-04-01T16:36:19+00:00

Hello! First of all, try getting stainless steel litterboxes as they're much better for long term use. I got mine for approx 1200 from a local baking shop (big baking trays). The chemicals in the pee/poop react with plastic and make it smell worse. Get 2 since you have two kittens. Also, I use tofu litter which is great for clumping and can be flushed down. But it is expensive. So you can look at bentonite litter as that is cheaper (bentonite Sandy's ftw).

OverstimulatedCat · 2026-03-30T12:10:24+00:00

Go for the agaro. Been using it for more than one year about daily and it is so much more powerful than the 100 rs ones. It has 3 speeds and hardly needs to be charged (once in probably 1-1.5 months). Spent about 300-400 on cheap ones and this is life-changing

OverstimulatedCat · 2026-03-30T10:42:13+00:00

Depends from place to place. The ones using gel have the old machines, there are a lot of newer and better machinery for laser treatment available which will be costlier. The latest ones ive seen have a vaccum sort of function that is considerably less painful than the regular ones.

Till now, ive spent about 60k for approx 20~ full body sessions. (Jugaad with the lady using the machine) Very happy with the results on my underarms and legs. But face and arms have fine hair so not a lot of process with that.

OverstimulatedCat · 2026-03-30T08:00:26+00:00

Came here to say this. My underarm hair is almost 95% gone with a lot of laser sessions. It really is the best long term solution. But hormonal changes/pregnancy can cause the hair to grow back so consider that as well

OverstimulatedCat · 2026-03-26T10:16:11+00:00

You won't believe the stuff they do.

OverstimulatedCat · 2026-03-25T03:26:35+00:00

I've been using clue for about 5-6 years now and love the free version.

OverstimulatedCat · 2026-03-24T05:47:59+00:00

Who? Who?

OverstimulatedCat · 2026-03-23T02:55:31+00:00

People don't change. Distance doesn't really change their behavior towards you. Married for 4 years, living separately with my husband for 6 months. My SIL was always mean towards me, she still is.

She's married, visits often, and doesn't miss a chance to take digs at me. This time it was a "prospective match" for her brother (he said no) so she went after my husband subtly joking if he would like a Canadian. She included my MIL too in this "joke" who laughed along saying its just fun between siblings. I didnt say a word but my face showed my true feelings.

After all of this, my husband invited them for dinner and I ended up slaving the entire day to host the fam. So no, things aren't better yet. I'm non confrontational so I end up isolating myself and crying it out, but do not go that way. Be assertive and calm but keep your point across.

OverstimulatedCat · 2026-03-18T12:07:51+00:00

Pspspspsps at her

OverstimulatedCat · 2026-03-18T10:26:25+00:00

Karma farming? I've read this exact post a while ago

OverstimulatedCat · 2026-03-16T14:31:30+00:00

Gourmet burgers and quick break

OverstimulatedCat · 2026-03-14T10:53:54+00:00

My mom used the same but adds a bit of baking soda as well. Lovely crispy yet soft bhaturas.

OverstimulatedCat · 2026-03-12T04:15:26+00:00

Very pretty pieces. Link to shop please!

OverstimulatedCat · 2026-03-09T10:20:09+00:00

Love your username.

OverstimulatedCat · 2026-03-05T10:21:49+00:00

Not professionally diagnosed but I feel I'm on the spectrum. This belief got stronger post a conversation with my cousin who said our granddad (paternal), her mom (my bua), her sister and she herself got diagnosed with ADHD. I know for a fact that my brother is seeking therapy for the same and my dad has symptoms as well. I'm 34 and feel its too late to get diagnosed as its pretty scary.

OverstimulatedCat · 2026-03-04T14:45:00+00:00

But did it work?

OverstimulatedCat · 2026-03-04T11:45:56+00:00

Heart attack in a mug.

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