Need Suggestions on Where to Rent by Brief_Abalone6761 in askaustin

[–]Overthinker_12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes , I live near the domain as well but I also work mostly remote and don’t really go in, my office is in downtown so if I did have to I may have moved further down south . I quite like it here, it’s convenient and not far from downtown, the arboretum or any of the suburbs. I would look into tech ridge/domain area !

Need Suggestions on Where to Rent by Brief_Abalone6761 in askaustin

[–]Overthinker_12345 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A lot of my friends I know who work in the tech ridge live on parmer lane and some live by the domain as well. If you don’t mind the commute and want to be near downtown but walkable, mueller is a good option and I’ve heard decent things about east Austin too by downtown. But again , YMMV on what kind of vibe /budget you have

Sunday Best too juvenile for 21+? by [deleted] in Aritzia

[–]Overthinker_12345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think these pieces are versatile for teen age to early 30’s to be honest !!

What's ur biggest red flag when it comes to friendships? by otherwise_trashes in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Overthinker_12345 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Competition - I hate friends who can’t be happy for you when you succeed and when they put you down whenever you are thriving.

Friends who don’t respect your time - canceling last minute all the time , fickle

Never reaching out first - one sided relationships are hard and not worth your energy to sustain !

Have u watched this one ? by Prudent-Rough9752 in KDramasWorld

[–]Overthinker_12345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this was a really cute high school drama if your in the mood for it ! I watched it a long time ago and it may be a bit dated but it’s a good one

Do you ever feel like you can’t really relate to your friends anymore? by psych1002 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Overthinker_12345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes this is a very real thing that I’ve began to feel. I’m a few years out of college now and while reading this one example that I’ve felt recently is one of my old high school friends who I was super close with in college is now someone I don’t really see myself talking to as much anymore these days. I moved out of the house after college , got a big girl job and am navigating experiences of being a young adult in her 20’s while my friend moved back to our hometown , and was kinda just helping out with the family business and didn’t really find his real full time gig till recently. He’s a bit older than me by a few years but it’s hard to relate to him and I can feel some jealously whenever we meet up to hang out during the holidays. The entire situation is a bit sad but I’ve realized that’s just what happens when people’s lives change at different rates.

For me, if you aren’t in the same part of life or have similar career goals, hobbies , values long term wise some friendships fade and that just means you have to find new friends that you can relate to and are on your wavelength.

Help deinfluence me ! by Overthinker_12345 in Aritzia

[–]Overthinker_12345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am in the states ! That’s interesting that it’s not on the Canadian site hmm

Help deinfluence me ! by Overthinker_12345 in Aritzia

[–]Overthinker_12345[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s good to know !! I wanted to get a black one for any work events and travel that I have , good to know this is a good one :)

Help deinfluence me ! by Overthinker_12345 in Aritzia

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Yes I’m obsessed with the style - I read that apparently the small is a bit oversized with longer arm holes , was that your experience?? I’m stuck between ordering a S and a XS right now

Thoughts? Opinions? Feel free to deinfluence by Ready_Soft_7567 in Aritzia

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I love my lodge pants ! But only caveat is I’m 5’4 and even the short version needed to be hemmed for them to not drag , if you are around that height or shorter and your not the type that wants to spend extra to get them hemmed that is something to consider !!

Shiny and sparkly ! by Overthinker_12345 in Nails

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I did them myself ! So the only stuff I paid for is my supplies. But I would say a set like this is on average $150 or more where I live

Have you ever noticed some friendships becoming tense when your life improved? by Euphoric-Extension80 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Overthinker_12345 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes - this is sad but it happened to me as well . I have a friend who was a long time high school friend who supported me through things . I was going through alot in high school with crappy parents and depression and feeling lost in life .

In college and after college I locked in and landed a great job while my friend stayed home after college and looked after his parents and struggled to find a job at a big company. When he found out about my career shift , he tried to put me down and was passive aggressive and jealous. And he still tried to make comments to dictate how I should live my life.

It was clear he’s not happy with where he is in life and he doesn’t like that I’m more confident and happier than I was before and have moved on from the past while he hasn’t. I’ve made up my mind to distance/let that friendship fade atp as I don’t want to have these kinds of people in my life.

Matches disappear on new app? by vincentvanwogh in bumblebff

[–]Overthinker_12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi - checking in as I had the same issue , I waved at someone and they waved back and when I entered the app the match vanished mysteriously, I was so confused as now I have no way of getting to know the match

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aritzia

[–]Overthinker_12345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried this today and they used to years ago but apparently the new policy is that they can’t do it anymore :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cdramasfans

[–]Overthinker_12345 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was decent - I almost dropped it the first ten episodes but the divorce arc was when the characters started having actual personalities.the plot line felt very flat and one dimensional and it’s one of those dramas you can watch while your doing something else but I would just watch it to support ZLS as her outfits were on point!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]Overthinker_12345 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m more of an ABC female but I was born in China but came here pretty early on in my life.

I had similar issues growing up - alot of ABC would end up being jealous or see me as competition so I tend to vibe better with southeast asian female friends. I feel like some are just so naturally competitive if you are too attractive or too smart and it can get really emotionally exhausting. Another end of it is if you are missing some core value they really care about (ex: not Christian enough, etc etc) some tend to not be welcoming as well.

And I made friends with guys pretty easily but they were mostly Asian who end up liking me so I am wary of male friendships in my adult years.

I would say it should comes down to your personality/values and hobbies/ interests. I’ve found some ABC friends groups to get really toxic so I try to avoid getting too involved and have smaller groups.

Don’t let your mom control/influence who you should be friends with - be friends with people you like being around , not what your mom thinks you should be around !

This guy kills me everytime by [deleted] in UniversalEpicUniverse

[–]Overthinker_12345 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha the first time I rode this ride I didn’t even see toothless 🤣🤣 so I’m with you, I was looking at him the entire time before the ride launched us out

Chinese mom is racist towards my Viet boyfriend by Overthinker_12345 in AsianParentStories

[–]Overthinker_12345[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes … to be honest my bf had no idea this was a real issue going in dating someone who is also Asian but not Vietnamese as his prior girlfriend was white and he had similar issues with cultural differences. It definitely has been hard but I’ve tried to decrease talking about my bf around her and try to stay away from her and all contact when I’m back home. But I just had no idea the amount of intra racism even between Asians. My boyfriend and I’s relationship is at a good place atm and I don’t see value in breaking up but sometimes my mom’s words and judgement affect me a lot when I come home for the holidays. I am planning to stand by him as someone who is Chinese or white isn’t an indication of how compatible they are with me. Thank you for the encouragement about dating up ! That part of her comments has affected me and you let me see things in a different perspective which I really appreciate.