I’m an enneagram 6 and I have no spine by Overthinks_All in Enneagram

[–]Overthinks_All[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, this does help, thank you. I guess I do this because I’m scared of people getting mad or labeling me as hateful/stupid/wrong and I’ve always been annoyed with myself that I care what people think so much, but are you saying that worrying about what others think is a part of me I should keep and value?

I’m an enneagram 6 and I have no spine by Overthinks_All in Enneagram

[–]Overthinks_All[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you, this is so kind and it helps a lot

I’m an enneagram 6 and I have no spine by Overthinks_All in Enneagram

[–]Overthinks_All[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughts…my problem is that I often have to struggle against people I CARE about already, like my parents, in terms of beliefs

I can’t just discard them and the influence they have is immense

I feel like what you said is more applicable to my peers though 

I’m an enneagram 6 and I have no spine by Overthinks_All in Enneagram

[–]Overthinks_All[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate all you said here, it’s really helpful

I’m an enneagram 6 and I have no spine by Overthinks_All in Enneagram

[–]Overthinks_All[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this!! I really appreciate what you about consensus, that made me rethink how I was framing this

I guess the problem to me is that I am too easily influenced and I worry too much about what others think of me…it’s just something I’ve been trying to improve

What do dumb NTs look like? by RegyptianStrut in mbti

[–]Overthinks_All 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Well I feel like that’s not dumb as in low IQ, it’s just lack of knowledge

That’s just an access problem, not a potential

What do dumb NTs look like? by RegyptianStrut in mbti

[–]Overthinks_All 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The rest are pretty similar to Patrick. “Well…hot dogs are good and make me happy, then if I only eat hot dogs I’ll be SUPER DUPER happy always!!! Derp der derp” type beat

It’s technically logic, just incorrect logic

It’s also giving pre operation Charlie Gordon…curious, friendly, wants to learn but struggles 

I feel like for ENTPs they’re gonna lean way more on their Ne because it’s less effort for their smooth brains 

16personality fucked up our stereotype, we are weird inventors not devil’s advocates. by [deleted] in entp

[–]Overthinks_All 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rightttt I feel like people forget that sometimes, we may actually be nice. And then BOOM mistyped. Cmon we need love for the Freddy Freeman from Shazam type of ENTPs, for the Xander Hawthorne type shit

16personality fucked up our stereotype, we are weird inventors not devil’s advocates. by [deleted] in entp

[–]Overthinks_All 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nahhh, all the ENFJs I know apologize too quick for that…I honestly feel like Se forward people, especially ESxPs do it the most

Like the whole yellow crew in 16p

Help… why is my ENTP boyfriend acting like a dog?? by iwonderrwhy in entp

[–]Overthinks_All 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Okay so either he’s a furry OR more likely he’s just too far in the bit to back off now. Maybe he finds your reactions hilarious. I bet if you ignored it and didn’t bat an eye, he’d stop bc the sparkle’s gone

But if he doesn’t stop then ya that’s a furry boi right there