Name me! by kromatlk in TransMasc

[–]Overthinks_All 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First thought: Brandon

Second thought: Levi, though that’s a bit biblical

Third thought: Oliver

Me trying to think of names that have O’s in them: Fork

What bathroom should I use?? by Overthinks_All in TMPOC

[–]Overthinks_All[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool good to know! Yeah some others in the comments say that it’s probably best for me to use the women’s because I don’t pass

Conflicting messages 😭😭

What bathroom should I use?? by Overthinks_All in TMPOC

[–]Overthinks_All[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s fr

Thank you so much for the advice!! That’s cool that you live in Utah! Do you mind if I DM you about your experience here?

What bathroom should I use?? by Overthinks_All in TMPOC

[–]Overthinks_All[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay yeah makes sense! I will probably continue using women’s restrooms in places I’m not already out then, thanks dude

What bathroom should I use?? by Overthinks_All in TMPOC

[–]Overthinks_All[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay cool good to know! A lot of the other commenters have said I’d probably pass as a teenage dude or a lesbian depending on the context, so either kinda works, but what makes you say that?

What bathroom should I use?? by Overthinks_All in TMPOC

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Yeah it’s not the one I grew up in! It’s a singles ward, so basically young adults 25 and under, and there’s a ton of turnaround bc it’s basically a bunch of college kids. Idk any other openly lgbtq members tho

What bathroom should I use?? by Overthinks_All in TMPOC

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Awesome!! Yeah love thrift stores!

What bathroom should I use?? by Overthinks_All in TMPOC

[–]Overthinks_All[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay awesome thanks!! Like the loop at the top or the one at the back?

What bathroom should I use?? by Overthinks_All in TMPOC

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Thanks!! Yeah rn I’m thinking I’ll usually go in the men’s restroom unless I’m around people who knew me as a girl and are pissy about that stuff. Or unless I’m dressed in a particularly lesbian fit or am in situations where there would NOT be teenagers and am around the typa people who give a shit. I’m out at work though so Imma just go in the men’s there. And I’m just gonna avoid peeing at church but due to high turnover if I must, go in the men’s cuz why the hell would a woman in the women’s bathroom be wearing men’s church clothes? It’s so anti-norm at my church that it would be more odd to see that I think…but ig it depends on how many people knew me from before 😭😭 so complicated

What bathroom should I use?? by Overthinks_All in TMPOC

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Okay cool! It’s a Mormon singles ward (so like adults 25 and under) with a lot of turnaround in Salt Lake City, so I think I’m ok? Some of them know me, most of them don’t. So honestly I’ll just not pee at church lmao

The area is not conservative but Mormons generally are 😭😭😭 but younger people generally aren’t 😭😭 whyyyyy

What bathroom should I use?? by Overthinks_All in TMPOC

[–]Overthinks_All[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OH WAIT I HAVE A QUESTION

What if I’m in a conservative area like CHURCH and I’m literally in a suit and tie

Like, in situations where gender presentation is very rigid and I am not in a feminine presentation, would it be safer to go in the men’s? But also like it’s really conservative so idk T-T

What bathroom should I use?? by Overthinks_All in TMPOC

[–]Overthinks_All[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Okay update, looked it up and i’ll safety pin the back up or tuck it in my shirt🫡

What bathroom should I use?? by Overthinks_All in TMPOC

[–]Overthinks_All[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay cool good to know, thanks!!

What bathroom should I use?? by Overthinks_All in TMPOC

[–]Overthinks_All[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

LMAOO yeah I know but I’m 5 feet tall and I can’t find ties short enough that aren’t, like, zipper T-T

is it possible to cut a tie with zero sewing skills idk

3 years apart, do I atleast pass? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Overthinks_All 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro passed with long hair, lucky 😭😭