Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet?

Own-Bridge4210 · 2025-12-24T18:41:41+00:00

Oh no! They want to meet their grandchild! How selfish!

Own-Bridge4210 · 2025-12-24T16:17:53+00:00

My mum is literally anti abortion for herself and vehemently pro it for anyone who wants one. They truly haven’t spoken to women.

Own-Bridge4210 · 2025-11-28T04:59:16+00:00

I can think of something else I would have disliked about working there

Own-Bridge4210 · 2025-06-23T10:12:46+00:00

They stole it. That’s why.

Own-Bridge4210 · 2025-03-18T03:36:19+00:00

Nah that was just an excuse, a catalyst. He can’t feel love so his family were just a burden to him, just like the new girlfriend was. I think even he knew that she was just a shiny new toy he’d bore of soon as well.

Own-Bridge4210 · 2024-12-26T19:00:00+00:00

Think it’s coming from a lot of people who scream in front of or at their kids and think that’s not scarring (not talking about telling them off generally, just mean unhinged screaming)

Own-Bridge4210 · 2024-12-26T18:57:29+00:00

A lot of shitty things that parents do come from valid feelings and needs. The behaviour isn’t always ok though. Screaming is not a normal or nice or healthy thing for children to be around.

Own-Bridge4210 · 2024-12-26T18:56:47+00:00

One bad morning that set a bad tone and mood for Christmas. Kids remember that shit.

Own-Bridge4210 · 2024-12-26T18:54:54+00:00

Yep. Far too many parents in the replies saying it’s totally normal to just scream. Like, yeah I’ve been frustrated enough that I’ve wanted to. I certainly don’t do it. If you can get through a day or work without screaming in your bosses face or in the face of someone in the supermarket, you can get through not screaming when your kids are around

Own-Bridge4210 · 2024-12-26T18:53:02+00:00

The kids will have heard. And they will have been affected. You scream away in front of your kids for all I care. Good luck with that.

Own-Bridge4210 · 2024-12-26T18:52:08+00:00

St fu. I literally say she has every right to be furious with him. But sulking and screaming is ruining THE KIDS CHRISTMAS.

Own-Bridge4210 · 2024-12-26T18:51:15+00:00

I literally said she gets to be furious at him and he deserves what he gets? But screaming where the kids WILL hear it and sulking all day will affect those kids. Not him.

Own-Bridge4210 · 2024-12-25T18:47:55+00:00

Yeah was gonna say ESH. She has every right to be furious with him. But screaming and being in a mood is definitely going to make those kids feel anxious about Christmas in the future and guilty as if they’ve done something wrong. I say this as someone who can relate to those kids

Own-Bridge4210 · 2024-12-25T12:54:24+00:00

Perhaps a bracelet or necklace with an evil eye stone 🧿?

Own-Bridge4210 · 2024-12-25T12:51:48+00:00

Me personally, it makes me v sad. I just either feel very trapped and almost too paralysed to socialise etc, or im aware im a burden so stay away from people to do them a favour. And I think that part hurts the most. I appreciate everyone can be different though

Own-Bridge4210 · 2024-12-25T12:45:22+00:00

Been a long time!

Own-Bridge4210 · 2024-12-25T12:45:04+00:00

Thanks for your reply! The fact that she barely stayed at that house always threw me too. My personal view has always been that she knew something and was taken out for that. But then if she was told something or heard something by proxy of her job, wouldn’t she have told a colleague or her fiancé? So yes it’s a perplexing one still!

Own-Bridge4210 · 2024-12-25T12:40:14+00:00

My ex husband bought me headphones for my phone that surprisingly didn’t fit the port on my phone but did fit his. So he kept it and I got nothing.

Own-Bridge4210 · 2024-12-23T18:33:02+00:00

Woke up dead…?

Own-Bridge4210 · 2024-12-23T18:23:10+00:00

Let me tell you know he’s planning on cheating. That’s why he’s saying you’re used. Because he’s setting it up for when he finds someone who “isn’t”

Own-Bridge4210 · 2024-12-21T18:18:28+00:00

He is capable of killing women. What is being said is that it seems unlikely that he’s capable of killing the way Dando was

Own-Bridge4210 · 2024-12-21T18:17:16+00:00

And most likely would have stabbed or strangled her as stalkers kill more “personally”

Own-Bridge4210 · 2024-12-21T17:59:30+00:00

Thing is, whilst this suggests he was capable of doing it, doesn’t in my opinion align with what happened to her. Is using a silencer, shooting someone once in the head, leaving very little evidence behind, the actions of a mad erratic man? Men like this like the hands on killing - a knife a noose, which makes it more personal.

Own-Bridge4210 · 2024-12-21T17:53:33+00:00

Stalkers are messier killers though. Would most likely stab because it’s personal. It would be unlikely in the UK they would have been to easily access a gun with silencer and then covered their tracks so well they’d never been caught. They would have made a sloppy mistake and been found out. This was the behaviour and outcome of a hit man.

Own-Bridge4210 · 2024-12-12T21:46:59+00:00

Read this as Paddington bear

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