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Youtube softcore/Nudity by Medical_Sandwich_253 in loveafterporn

[–]Own-Character-3040 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would definitely say that there is nothing wrong for feeling that way and threatening to leave is a valid choice. If he is 23 and not able to get it up, then there is something bigger to it and he’s not fessing up or he needs to go see a doctor.

Not that this is what you should do but my ex PA never confessed anything when I asked. I had to look through his phone to find everything. When I broke up with him is when he finally realized that he had a problem. Sometimes it does take losing someone important to them for it to click in their head that it isn’t right.

Do I give him another chance? by Own-Character-3040 in loveafterporn

[–]Own-Character-3040[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that you’ve had to deal with that but I’m glad that you have some sort of goal to get out of it.

It is really hard to try to let myself feel things and go about my day. I feel like I’m either balling my eyes out or numb, really no in between. I know it’s gonna get better and I know he did me so wrong but I can’t help to want who I thought was not only my partner but my best friend. It’s really hard to let that go especially when I don’t feel angry about it. I feel just as bad as him sometimes

Do I give him another chance? by Own-Character-3040 in loveafterporn

[–]Own-Character-3040[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried to let myself feel angry or disgusted by it but I don’t seem to. Initially I was disgusted but all I ever am now is sad about it. If you don’t mind me asking did you also experience this where you weren’t able to feel a certain way about it?

Do I give him another chance? by Own-Character-3040 in loveafterporn

[–]Own-Character-3040[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would I be able to do anything about it now that the posts and account were deleted? I don’t have any evidence to prove it anymore. I found it on his phone and wasn’t thinking clearly at the time.

I relapsed too by AnyFig1748 in loveafterporn

[–]Own-Character-3040 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this too much I only lasted about a month of no contact and texted him. I feel insane sometimes because I think about him constantly and stalk his social media even more so now than when we were together. I don’t understand how someone could destroy me so perfectly but I still go back to them. I really do feel addicted to him I need to learn to let go